How many loves, which one was the best

How many loves have you all had, and which one was the one you wish you never ended or did end?

I've only loved one boy. So I guess he was the best.

this is kind of a depressing topic

^ I don't think it's depressing. Things come and go in life...even love. It's natural and right to regain your confidence and love again so we should be comfortable talking about past-love. If you're not...take a look and evaluate - maybe there was something unbalanced.

I've loved a few haha...but having that love mutually shared...only 1. So I guess that is the best one. It ended quite recently actually. The one that I was in a long distance relationship with then she moved here...we tried and it didn't work. Still...can't say I don't love her any more.

I'm fine with loving different people throughout life. After all, I can love my mom, my best friend, my boyfriend, all at the same time. But "which one was the best?" If you love somebody, I don't think that question applies. You can love them all in ways that were suited to the time. If anything, the question could be phrased "which love most fit what you were looking for." or something.

Not really...it's just a hard question to answer. You're right there are many levels to compare. I am sure though, that you've had that one that really stands out. We do it all the time. We compare...we judge. It's what we do. Though you might be evenly compassionate to all...I don't know =P

heh... I -wish- I could be compassionate to all. But yes. I've had romantic loves that have worked out better than others. I've also had deep platonic loves... familial loves...and they all helped form me. I couldn't single out just one, because I wouldn't be where I am if any were lacking. So, maybe I'm just indecisive (or maybe I just haven't found my best love yet), but there you go : )

hehe good to know. I think the forum implies romance though. I suppose it's easy for me to assume so because I put love first. Above all else the love of me :) can't love anyone else if I don't love me. If I'm really serious about a gf. She would be placed at the same level as me. That's as high as it gets haha

Kinda contradiciting what I said...-_-

oh wow...

added on: The forum would perhaps imply romance, except it gets filled up with so many "i can't choose B-tween 3 guys ther all hottt lol" threads that, for the most part, the romance flees to other areas. ; )

oh...i meant this single thread right here..sorry haha. I agree with you...a lot of the conflicts people deal with wouldn't be what we'd consider "conventional love"...if there's such a thing. What's your current status on that field? Any conflincts or is it "All's quiet on the southern front"? haha

are those really the only options?

hahaha...of course not...you can just tell me what it's like then

I live in love. It's wonderful and terrible, and quiet and subtle.

how...poetic...=P but ok Love is good. Why is it terrible? if you don't mind sharing

Hmm...gonna go now...I'll talk to you another time if we get the chance haha. Later days

I've had two real loves, although i have loved about 19 boys, just not as strongly as these two. One i lost due to moving houses and i was in grade four. The other i recently dumped thinking we would get back together but never did..now we can only be friends...that is the best one...he is a loser, but oh so gawjuss...i regret letting him go

Now time to answer my own question... I have had ONE love... and liked many. This one girl just seems to take my breathe away every time i see her, hear her voice... etc. She was the very reason i broke up with my gfs... because i thought i was over her but i guess i really wasnt... i still love her to this day..

'i broke up with my gfs.'

How much, how many...

lol your right that made me sound like im a player ( which im not ).... i only had about 3 gf... including the one i love...

oocha..

weren't the other [about] 2 heartbroken?

But I guess, if a girl was able to set you on the straight and narrow... maybe you're better now. mrgh.

I just love her... but luckily the other girls werent so mad, they just wanted me to be happy.... and im still friends with them now