Need some help

  • Colby
    17 years ago

    Hey everyone, im 14... and believe it or not i am in love. Most people think its stange but w/e i dont want to hear that im crazy for a 14 year old for being in love. So anyway right to the point..

    This girl and I liked each other for 5 months about... and she said i changed so things fell apart. Then recently she started talking to me again acting all nice, looking me in the eye, laughing at my jokes, kinda like we were before we started liking each other the first time. But i dont want to presume and go ahead and do something if it will just turn out stupid. I really like her, and i think she may like me.
    But i want to prove to her that im still the old me and that i still love her.... but i dont know how to do this without getting "caught" because i really dont want people to know. Because if people know then she will find out, and if she doesnt like me that might pull her away from me making it harder for her to 'see' me.

    Any suggestions?

  • Kelsea
    17 years ago

    If you really, truely love her, just tell her that you still do. If its meant to be, things will go the way you want it to. :) good luck

  • Colby
    17 years ago

    yeah but its the response that scares me...

  • Finalgravedigger
    17 years ago

    you should still go for it but know this dont change for anyone just be yourself no matter and plus if you go for it then you'll finally know.

  • Colby
    17 years ago

    I will.... your right. Im going for it

    the dance is the 6th... ill try to get hints. If I do, while we slow dancing I will tell her... and we will see what happens

    though i tell you what.... its gonna take some guts

  • Finalgravedigger
    17 years ago

    trust me i know how you feel.

  • Colby
    17 years ago

    It stinks man.... got anything else that would help me out?

  • Finalgravedigger
    17 years ago

    wait dude are you going to tell her i love you. Well first you can tell your feelings but dont say i love you so quickly quick love is never good dude trust me. Again just tell her how you feel and you wanna give this a try. Work your way up slowly. you dont want to be too strong on so quickly

  • Colby
    17 years ago

    Well i didnt plan on telling her I love her. Thsi girl and I have gone out before... just she ended things, then she started acting like she likes me again... so i think she does.. i just dont wanna blow things out of porportion...

  • Finalgravedigger
    17 years ago

    hmmmmmm this is info you should have concluded before. huh just go for it.

  • Colby
    17 years ago

    Ok i can do that.... ill die, lol but ok

  • Finalgravedigger
    17 years ago

    so was it because she thought you changed yall ended yalls relationship

  • Colby
    17 years ago

    yeah she thought i changed, but i guess i changed back

  • Impulse
    17 years ago

    I know this isn't what yas wanna hear but.. in all honesty.. you ARE still young... I'm not saying you're not in love... I have no doubt that you are =).. but the fact that you're young means that in one way or another you are changing... ... I agree with what was stated above.. just come out and tell her that you still have feelings for her... if it works out.. that's awesome.. and if not... trust me.. it will suck.. but like I said.. you ARE still young... there will be sooo many more "loves" in your life =).. you'll wonder why you ever got scared to take a risk with this one =)