Plz help me answer this Question!!

  • *Wishes do come true*
    17 years ago

    Ok here is a question...im trying to get over this guy...but when i meet someone else I always seem to compare them to him...Do you know why this is happening?

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    1. Never compare. If you do accidently, stop yourself nobody would ever be the same to anybody else.

    2. YOU probably still have feelings for him and it depends on when you broke up.

  • *Wishes do come true*
    17 years ago

    How can I not compare?

  • Finalgravedigger
    17 years ago

    well you've just broke up with this guy right well then it should be natural because you compare because you want something different from your last guy you compare to see what you like. Many humans compare no matter what. You shouldnt really bother with it just give it some time.

  • Colby
    17 years ago

    Well its going to be hard to just get over someone..... so dont look for someone till you finally think you are over him. When you finally think you are. Start looking at other people. Now.... NEVER NEVER compare.... thats the worse thing, because your first love always seems to be the one you notice the most, so when you do.... you start to get feelings for that person.... so i say go with the flow...

  • Finalgravedigger
    17 years ago

    its so natural to compare. OMG. its human natural instincts. we all stereo type.

  • ChaoticallyMe
    17 years ago

    ^ true...I'd say compare....shop around. haha How else do we find the right one when we have options?? You can't just flip a coin and choose.