Asking a guy out

  • Emily
    17 years ago

    i like this guy we've been frenz for a while and i wanna ask him out....i just need to know how to approach him...help plz

    ~em~

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    Well

    1. Make sure he isn't seeing anyone first (lol, while it seems stupid, it's a MAJORLY important step)

    2. Start up a normal conversation

    3. Randomly shove, we're going out now ok bye in the convo and run, lol, JK! Just kinda, ask him if he would sometime, like to go to, idk, dinner and a movie or something similar to that.

    4. If he says no, well, at least you tried, and won't be left with what ifs?...

    Hope this helped,
    .:Danielle:.

  • Emily
    17 years ago

    he doesnt understand the concept of asking out though...he just moved here from israel

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    Ummm.. would he understand the concept of boyfriend? Cause just start up a convo and kinda ask him to be your boyfriend.

    .:Danielle:.

  • ChaoticallyMe
    17 years ago

    I'm sure people from Israel ask others out -_-
    Besides..having that difference in cultures add another texture of fun. Go and explore dear friend. When it's unconventional...try unconventional ways. Ask him about what relationships are like in Israel...start from there...try to get him to talk about the "Israeli way of asking people out" and look for hints there...see if he's apply/implying anything towards you. Good luck

  • Emily
    17 years ago

    ok, so he's not that new but he's new enough not to know about the american way of dating. i asked him before if he was interested in having a girlfriend and he said that i was already his gf. so he obv. doesnt get it .

  • ChaoticallyMe
    17 years ago

    -_- Good luck...

    =O well MAYBE...that's the Israeli way of asking you out "what you are talking about...you're already my gf" :P

  • silence
    17 years ago

    lol I still like the 'ask him and run' concept

    I agree with Joseph though. You need to try to see what the word 'girlfriend' means to him in his terms. Maybe you are already his girlfriend and he decided it for you :)

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    i asked him before if he was interested in having a girlfriend and he said that i was already his gf. so he obv. doesnt get it .

    ^ Hahaha.