military wives or girlfriends i need some support

he leaves in a five days and i am scared to death i dont know what to do and he just asked me to marry him, i need help,
nessa

Accept it... if you love him... accept it

If you love him, and are willing to wait, accept the proposal. Do you want to marry him? This is your decision, no one else's.

i love him so much, and i would wait forever for him, i just dont know i did say yes but what if some thing happeneds to him, what if he never comes home?
nessa

It's a risk you got to take. You love him and love is never easy, so be strong! The best of luck to you two! :)

thank you, and i am trying to be strong,
nessa

I think 16 is a bit young to be married but if you think you're ready and really love this guy then go for it.

I am seventeen and he will be gone about 6 months so by time he gets home and we get it all planned i will be eighteen and out of school. And we also have to have time to get to know each other all over again. You know get comfortable with each others company again. Sorry i took so long to get back to you on this 5 days goes fast. He leaves tomorrow. Much love and thanks. Nessa

I wouldn't worry about not spending much time on the internet to respond to member's comments. Your fiance is leaving, putting his life in jeopardy...(beginning) tomorrow. Spend all the time you can offer, with him.

if he doesn't come bck..walk on

If you really love him you will be there to catch him when he falls and he will be there for you when you fall. Love is crazy and it makes you go crazy if you can't be with the one you love. I would say yes if you love him and just pray to God that nuthing happens to him when he is in the Military. I hope you say yes if you do love him and CONGRATS if you do.... May I wish you a Happy marriage.

Girl, this is coming from a completly different side. I'm in the military myself and i leave in a couple hours. i've gone through this once before with my boyfriend. Leaving you for a short amount of time will only make the heart grow fonder. If the two of you are really meant to be together, you can make it through the hardship and and you'll be closer to him than you imagined possible.

Talk to him as much as you can, send him letters and packages, give him constant reminders that he has someone at home who misses and cares for him. most important right now that you can possibly do for the both of you is to keep his morale up. constant reminders that you love him and little miss you and love you letter with pictures will help him be strong so he can come home to you.

Don't worry so much about him and be strong. he needs that more than you know. Someone strong who can help him keep it together (dont tell him i said that though cuz guys always think they are tough!) but he really will need it. trust me, i know i do and i know my boyfriend does when he deploys.

Omg i know wat ur going through its the same with me my fiance is in the military and he proposed to me when he left its hard i know but the thing is to be strong for urself and for him just be strong and let him know ur there for him and stuff and if u need someone to talk to leave a message im here when u need someone to talk to