He knows, now what??

I REALLY, REALLY need help. The guy I like knows I like him. I wrote him a letter telling him how I felt, I got a letter back 2 weeks later. I have sent him another letter since. I am just wondering how do you get over the guy you have liked for over a year. Every day at school I walk past him, wondering what he is thinking. Or I might just try not to look at him, although it is really hard not to.

Do you have any suggestions on what I have to do to get over him? Or atleast to stop me from having a hole in my heart.

PLEASE HELP Me!!!!

Lost In Love
(Kalee)

What did he write back in the letter. What did he say 2 u? Was it gud or bad. I think we cud help you if we knew. Let us know.

x

I asked him out. He said no. It was in a decent way. saying that he wants to concentrate on school work as we are in yr 12. He said that he wasnt looking for a relationship just yet, as this year is the busiest for us. In it he also said stuff that was like 'you will find some one better then me' thats basically what it said. He said that I am 'a really nice person, and that there is someone else waiting for you out there'.

But what if I dont want any one else but him? I have really strong feelings for him. I have never felt this way about any guy. And I cant stop thinking about him. Every where I go I think about him. I just cant help it.

please help.

Kalee

Britt is rite just take it how it is...At least he didnt say it in a mean way like HELL NO or something like that just appreciate the little stuff you know? Maybe he is rite maybe there is someone out there better for you...just dont go lookin for him let him come to you!

I have tried to move on. Through all of last year I tried to say that he was an ass hole and other mean stuff about him, but it didnt work. And seeing him every day at school is making it even harder to forget about him.

Shes right guys, when you fall in love this early its hard to over come it...

though i have it much much worse... i have been in love with girl for 3 years... and she talks to me every day..

Don't take advice from this guy^ haha...I'm just kidding Colby X-P

It is hard to get out once you've fallen in love. The only thing you can do is accept lost. This comes easily for me now...but I know what it's like to be stuck hanging there. In mean time distract yourself. Do what you like to do. Be with the other important people in your life. Use this time for yourself. Get to know yourself and the others around you better. Life isn't only able loving one other person. When it's boiled down, it's mainly about loving yourself and then those around you. Good luck :)

don't get over him.
don't find someone new. :]
because when you TRY to get over him, it doesn't work. it makes things worse.
& when you TRY to find someone new, well it usually doesn't work either.

just let time run it's course.
things will settle down.
love him in the process.
or hate him. whichever you want.
eventually, you'll find someone new.
without TRYING.
& you'll get over this boy.

oh, i wish you loads of luck. :]]

This is true... if you try hard to get over him, it will make things worse and you will want him more..

^^ i agree

Would of told her "You can point a gun? You know how to fire one?" lol

True true.... dont love them so much you freak them out... haha i learned..

David...

fhaoifhadoifheodiafhoi3hroiuhro12ih4ih2foandfksyo!!!!!!

You are an imbecile.

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Agh. David, you really know how to make things worse than they need to be.

You're cold.

That's nice.

Alright, well...I'm going to get away from this drama for a bit.

Good luck original poster with whatever it is you needed help with. Sorry for destroying your thread.

To original poster... *hugs*... love is probably the HARDEST emotion to let go. At least hate can be forgotten with time, but not love... The best thing you can do to at least put it behind is first try to accept what has happened, and then concentrate on other things you enjoy like hanging with friends, or a hobby or something... if you TRUELY loved him, then it will never really go away, just gotta put it in the back of your heart... one of the other posters was right though... he was kind enough not to lead you on.

I know. He was kinder then any other guy would be if I asked them out. Instead of giving me a 1 word answer he gave me 2 pages. lol. He is a really kind person, even though I dont know him that well.

Well I will always be Lost In Love then.

Kalee

Love is the hardest emotion to let go of but I have to disagree with you this time Lance =( Hate can't be forgotten. You can try to forgive the person but there will always be some part deep down that can't let go of it =(
Anyway, yes the only way you can get over a love that didn't work is to not think about it for a while and even if you do try not to focus all your energy on forgetting that person. Focus on what you have and all the wonderful things that you still have like...the warmth of the sunlight on your face...your family and friends that you know love you....the fun things that you can do that you wouldn't have been able to do with him. Don't put all your energy into thinking about getting over him, put it into what you already have =)
And just keep reminding yourself that there IS someone great out there looking for you and wanting to be with you just as much as you want to be with him....you just have to find each other ^.^
It doesn't make it any easier for you right now I know but you really were one of the lucky ones and you should be grateful for that. He was kind enough to think about your feelings =P
***Rhea***

I am really glad I have people on here that if I need help I can talk to. Thanks to every one for their ideas on what I should do. He is a really great guy. I am glad that I love him, even if he doesnt love me back.

Thanks again to every one.

Kalee

*hugs*.. good luck =)

kalee if that it wat he wrote in the letter sayin that "you will find someone better than me" i say dont try to give him up and keep on liking him, cuz i believe he has feelings 4 u but he is just afraid to show it......and seein how that year is the busiest then just tell him u will wait until after that year and that u wont give up on him.....
~Stephan~

yo lost in luv kalee...if u luv him dan you'll wait for him..if u don't than u'll well find a new guy..but still while waiting for him..u stil lcan enjoy some guys..for a while

Ok, I'm actually going to answer the poster's question this time.

Yes yes, be thankful he had the decency to not lead you on. That shows he respects you, to say the least. So now...now that he knows, now that your feelings are out in the open, and decisions have been made...Don't be afraid to treat him as a friend, but distance yourself enough to move on. Allow yourself some space. Not much you can do besides.

Best of luck to you.