I just don't understand

I don't understand, everything was going just fine, and now, out of NO WHERE, Mike decides to break up w/ me, because "he is going away to college". College isn't for a while yet!!! He tried to be nice about it, but yeah, right, like you can be nice about that!!!!! I am so pissed off right now, its not even funny, I have never been this angry in my life. I can't honestly say I loved him, but I sure did like him one heck of a lot!! It's just not right!! He gave me my first kiss and everything. He is such an AS**OLE!!!!! Ok, well, I wasn't really looking for advice, just some place to vent and put my feelings. I know I'll get over him and move on and everything, I've lived almost 16 years w/o a guy, I don't need one now. It just, it wasn't supposed to end like this!!! It's just not right!!!!! Idk, no matter what way you look at it, it doesn't help the hurt any, I mean we only went out for about a month and a half, but idk, he was so nice and everything, idk what happened!! Oh well, like I said, just looking for a place to vent.

.:Danielle:.

My one boyfriend and I broke up on one of the worst ways possible. Be thankfulful he tried to be nice and it didn't end abruptly over something bad.

I'm sorry about that Danielle.

Danielle sorry but its people like you I hate. No matter how mad you are at him, how could you ever say you "dont think I have ever loved him" thats wrong... and inconsiderate. What he did was right. HE saved you the pain for later on and new if he didnt it wouldnt happen later on. Trashing him just because you are mad is not right...

Well, consider it a miracle that you chose to vent on the internet (Im being sincere about this).

Am I guessing right when I conclude that your pride is more wounded than your heart?

Colby - she shouldn't have been expected to love him after only a month. Some things take time. I think she was just guarding against the inevitable "u couldn't luv im after jus a month!!!" Instead of being overdramatic, she's being honest.

Topic poster - I'm sorry about what happened. I don't think there's really any good, fun way to end a relationship. If you guys have enough connection to stick with it, then I hope you can at least stay friends.

To Colby, sibyllene is right, how in the world could I have fallen in love with him after a month and a half?? Love is a deep word that takes more time than that to grow and blossom. When I say that, I say it in honesty, now don't get me wrong, I REALLY REALLY liked him, and I COULD have fallen in love with him, but I hadn't yet, I'm just sad because not only did I lose the one guy I really cared about, I lost a really good friend. Now, Colby, you do have sort of a point, but I would have been more understanding if he was actually leaving, but he isn't. Not for awhile anyway. I'm just really hurting right now. And yeah Taylor, my pride is wounded, but not nearly as much as my heart.

To sibyllene and everyone else thank you for the support, I just really needed to vent right then. I talked to him, and you know, I'm not quite so angry anymore, I'm still hurting, and that won't go away for awhile, but I'm feeling better about the whole thing, I think. I'm not sorry about what I said to him, but he took my abuse well, and he at least was honest with me and gave me a legitimiate reason. But I think after I'm finally able to pick up the pieces, we might be able to have a friendship, depends if I can get the pieces back together strong enough. But, it'll take a lot to earn that trust back. I just hate emotions sometimes, me being the logical person that I am, emotions just aren't logical. Thank you all.

.:Danielle:.

Ok, whilst laughing at Colby's response to your post, "Danielle sorry but its people like you I hate", I actually missed out on the fact you were with him for a MONTH.

Ok ok ok she didnt love him!!! well w/e she stated she did in a couple other posts awhile ago. So there for... she does love him. And my point was very clear

Where did I say that? I would like to know, because I sure don't remember saying it. Gosh, I sound like some sort of monster for denying that I loved him, but I can't honestly say it, so I won't. Now you sit there and you say you hate people who say "I never loved him" just because he broke up with me. Well, it's not because he broke up with me. It's because I hadn't had enough TIME to fall in love with him yet.

Now, I know what you all are thinking, it was only a month and a half, GET OVER IT!! There was so much more to it than just a relationship. He was a lot more to me than just a boyfriend. I don't think he knows it, and I'm not sure I want him too, but he was the closest to me that I've ever let anyone. I don't truly trust to many people, he was one of the very few.
I talked to him since that post, and I am not angry anymore. Colby, yeah, I hate to admit it, lol, but you were right, he was just trying to help me, I let my stubborness get in the way of me thinking clearly. I don't like to admit that I'm wrong, I can be a VERY stubborn person when I set my mind to it. So consider this a once in a lifetime thing, you won't see me admit that I'm wrong very often!!! lol However, I still want to know where in the world I ever said "I love Mike"... But, yeah, so I am hoping to talk to him before I go on vaction, so I can at least set my mind a little more at ease. I think... in a little while, I would like to be friends with him again. Because I feel like I've lost one of my best friends.
.:Danielle:.

-I know what you all are thinking, it was only a month and a half, GET OVER IT!!-

it's actually pretty easy to fall in love in a tiny amount of time, but anyway, you vented, nobody should have even bothered replying. like the first response was advice, which you clearly didn't ask for. like you said just try and be friends with him. simple.
x

haha you all crack me up.........
I know wat u r goin through cuz i dated this 1 girl for 5 months and she suddenly broke up with me over some guy that didnt even like her.......but wat u need to do is just ask to b friends...and if he says no then he is a worthless inconsiderate as**hole that u shouldnt waste your time on, but i know that its hard to get over him even if u try cuz ive been broken up with that girl and i still haven't completely gotten over her but i try.....well good luck 2 u