SO sick of love... (what should i do?)

We broke off a 3 1/2 yr relationship... His hurtful words did it all. N now he regrets it n wants me to come back n talk to him... should i?(i miss him a lot) n it happend multiple times before... but what he said sounds like he meant it all... n it broke my heart so badly. (i feel a poem coming up soon lol..)

He left me a million texts and voicemails saying he was mad n sorry n now he needs me... i cursed at him n told him that now i hate him... n now he feels bad. but honestly it has happend so many times before. im afraid it'll happen again. But this time he said the most hurtful things I couldn't believe it... And now that strong love I had for him is dying...
We were known as engaged... and planned to get married. But all it took was a few hours to ruin this...

should i talk to him or anything...? or try n forget him n move on...??(it'll be a **itch though

Thats ultimately your decesion... but if you like him enough ( or maybe even love him ) then I say go for it. If he really meant everything he said he would not be crying back to you. My and my gf have been to gether for almost a year now ( im 14 and so isnt she ) and we have been in many fights like this but it ended up being that something tragic just happened to us. So i say talk to him, make up. Things still might be awkward but you can work through it.

So over all its your decesion but i say it couldnt hurt if you still like him... and he still likes you

Colby.

he disrespected me insulted cursed at me made ish up saying thats what i said. it was making me go crazy. n said he didnt want me anymore that he didnt love me n that he was ready to find some1 else. already changed his status on certain sites as single. n after i told him ur right it is over for real n hung up... thats when he started texting back n calling... saying he is an idiot n wants me. but i cant forget the things he said to me... it was so harsh. i love him with all my heart but seriously what he said was so bad... i have to think twice.
he wants to have IT** before marriage n i dont want that yet i want it after!!! n he said he cant wait more than a yr he is a "man" n needs to take care of his self in that way.... there for he wont mind a 1 night stand!!! can u believe that? i wont cuz i believe in religion n follow it... but he disrespected me in that since n is like find urself a saint!!! so what should i do? n now he wants me back!???
i dont think i can even trust him to continue anything...

then dont do anything, tell him if you loved me you would have done those things... just forget it then. its over.... tell him that and try to move on.

As hard as this is to say. Move on. Leave him out of your life and move on. He hurt you bad and once he gets control it will get really bad. I know you love him. But leave it as that. Love lost. Sorry its so harsh but thats what i would do. Nessa

^ shes right..

If he's not willing to wait until marriage for you then he's not worth being with. Sex is just sex, you should be the most important thing in his life and if you want to wait he should be fine with waiting.

Omg tony e he also lives in alberta canada!! n goes to univ of alberta!!!

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i talked to him n because he kept calling me like crazy...say he's miserable without hearin my voice. he said he was just real mad n wa he said was all bs... like he's like we wont do that before marriage, but he kinda annoyed by it.
i called n even with this crushed heart i said i aint gonna leave u, n lets work on this, yet i need atleast 3 days to clear my mind... he went too far saying nah lets not talk for atleast 2 weeks. he gets all stuborn and weird. n i try to be nice n mean and calm n mad everything to let him know im trying for us to work through... i just need a lil break. but now he's acting weird again after begging and saying sorry.
so i got mad n was like fine we wont talk for 2 weeks.

like its like im stuck.
i care about him but if i leave him he sounds so miserable n i know how he is he'll act crazy. but when i stay with him he doesnt appreciate it, he just turns into a beast again..(lol) so now i guess imma stick to the 2 week break... however im guessing after 2 days maybe he might start calling and texting saying sorry i need u... u know? but i know imma miss him too, but ill control myself.
he's becoming more n more complicated as time is passing.
like i pictured my future with him as his wife n wa not... but like everything is falling apart slowly. it hurts. im thinking if i have to move on i will try my best though i wont ever forget him, but he wont be able to... u know?

4get him he doesnt deserve your love!

Q: SO sick of love... (what should i do?)

A: Don't fall in love. Simple. :)

yea i guess so... we made up lolz.. but u know i cant forget the crap he did. its just all this frustration. but man he is like sick without me! n im sort of sick of loveee cuz its so complicated. i mean this may sound kinda of funny to some but my zodiac sign is sagittarius n we're the type who dont like to be tied down. he's an aquarius who supposed to also like his own space but he's clingy!!lolzzz

well lets c how things work out... true love is amazing when u have it because it teaches u to be patient and to still feel that love some how some way = /