What the best way to break with a girl?

Hei.....have you ever been breaking up with a girl which neither of you being hurt.......Help me with some way ok.?

well from my experience, i think all break ups hurt on some level. I've never had one that didn't hurt but, a little advice, don't do it through text, phone, msn, email or letter in the locker/mailbox... those are the ways that have been used on me and those were just LOW.

I have been dumped via txt and msn... I didn't really care, if you cry if someone dumps you, you don't feel as embarrassed. I know I wouldn't like my ex boyfriend to see me cry over him. TXT is low, and a letter is too, but the phone is alright... depends on the person you're dumping.

Don't do it with the help of technology...that sums up how not to do it...but just tell her that you feel different and if she feel that is sincere she won't be to heartbroken...but if you don't really want to do it face to face with her try the phone...its not as difficult (or LOW), and if she is hurt by it she can just hang up rather then running away if you did it face to face...bad experiences...oh and never do it by making your best friend or her best friend do it, because then it could make her feel as if your scared of her reaction or that she's just worth you saying it to her face...once again bad experiences.

just tell her that things aren't as great as they once were so it would be easier to end things now than to carry on and let things go bad. tell her you just want to be able to end things on good terms so you can still be friends. make sure that when you do break up with her you keep in regular contact so she stil feels loved.

It depends on her feelings towards you. If she feels strongly about you, there is no way to dump her and not have her hurt. It appears that you dont want to hurt her, and thats sweet. Make sure to tell her its not her fault and she didnt do anything wrong, but you have to give an anwser to why your braking up with her. Because ive had people brake up with me, with out a reasson which just left me confused and over thinking every possible anwser. So make sure to give her a reasson to why your braking up with her.

Um... sorry, I missed something... why is he cold if he doesn't like her that way, and she cares for him?

tell her the truth!

be HONEST with her and look at her the whole time when u brake up with her

Tell her to her face and I agree be honest and NEVER use the line "It's not you, It's me!" break ups will always hurt there's no way around it! But when my ex used that line I knew he was lying and it really hurt!
K I'll be quiet now:)

i'm with all of them. don't tell it through something were she can't hear ur voice and see the expresion on ur face. look at her the whole time and show her that it hurts u just as much as it hurts her. tell her the whole truth and say that its just time to break up. and what ever u do don't say "can we just be friends" u can still be freinds just don't say it like that:)

never break up over the phone