its over and i miss him

There is no real way to get over some one you love. I know i havent gone out with an guys but I do love someone. I have asked him out, but he said no. So now I have to try and get over him, but i cant. So really you will always love him, even if you did only go out with him for a short time. Because in that short amount of time you got to know the real him. That is something you will never be able to get over no matter how long after you had broken up.

I really hope that this has helped. I know it probably hasnt, but it might be good advise to some one.

Kalee

hey there
well there is no wrong or right way of getting over someone you love..
there is no manual book nothing.. to be honest its good you did talk to him about it.. and i dont really know wot he meant by it but im thinking he meant he knows he hasnt been himself too u recently..
sometimes thats is because wen you are with someone a long time and 8 months is a long time then ppl tend to fall out of love.. he may still care for you but not love..

i know that sucks and everything but that is love and life!!!!

i know how tht feels when youve split up with someone they are constantly on your mind... and it drives you mental doesnt it???? best thing to do is spend time with close friends.. tell them yoou need them and they will be there to lend you there shoulders...

my advice is TIME..... i know tht bit strange t write but time is the best healer and it might not seem like it now because when i brooke up with me ex god he was on my mind i wrote out so many texts to him etc but never sent them!!! and after bit of time you do start to put him bk of your mind!!

your heart will heal when its ready too and when i wanted to talk to him i wrote out a text and i then texted a mate who i trusted and i said i neeeded them and u no u can cry your eyes out on them... and there aint aword said really just a hug..

k k im wofferling on now aye lol
email me if you do wanna chat ill listen any time..

you know when one door shuts another opens and yeah if it meant ot be it will.... and thing is u never know who is around tht next corner...

xhx

I broke up with my boyfriend and let me tell you, i went through HELL!! I was totally empty inside..i had never been so depressed. I even wanted to kill myself. I know i did the right thing as well, but for some reason it didnt feel right being without him. Trust me hun, if it is meant to be, it will all work out. If not, then there is some deliciously-hot guy out there, waiting for you to fall into his arms. If you don't think you n your ex are gonna get back together, go and look for prince-charming..

He's a jerk then! I hope you find someone better!

Hey hun
im sorry to hear he did that ad he is a waste of bl***y space and you deserve so much more and someone much better than him..

sweety keep your head up high and chin up and youll get though it!! i know its a nasty feeling to know he did tht and i no ppl saying bad things about him dont and wont help you...
so sweety i promise there is someone beta out there for you.. you just have to wait for them to come in your direction...

one door shuts another opens... and what goes around comes around and hun what he has doen to you in time it will back round and bite him on the bum... honest it will... like my ex hurt me big time and its come bk on him as im now happy with someone new and he isnt and he is lonely etc and having not so great time..

so chin up hun.. spend time with your friends and dotn bottle it up tal kto a close friend take care

xhx

PS also at least he was honest with you he could have tried to play you both!!!!

I went through about the same thing. my boyfriend screwed up hardcore. everytime i tried talking to him about the problem he got offensive and basically tried blaming it on me. but im really not the one who pushed him to go sell drugs. i love him so i couldnt end it. i kept telling him we were just going to take a break and all. so i didnt talk to him that much like we had before. but then he started coming around on his own. one night i completely ended it i told him i couldnt deal with it right now and i didnt talk to him for over a week. well i missed him and called him and he apologized admitting he was wrong and promised he'd never do it again. we got back together and he has improved!.

i guess my point to that story. is maybe what u guys need is just a break. it seems to be that with those texts hes sending u hes realizing what hes been doing wrong. and maybe he wants to make things work. depending on how long u have been apart. talk to him again and see how hes feeling about everything. maybe he has come around and wants to put the effort into making it work.

hope this helped a little bit.

Uhhhh wow...
my bad.
i didnt completely read everyone elses comments. and well i didnt know that this guy was seeing someone else.
im sorry
hes an asshole. u deserve better than that piece of scum.