Should we stop being friends?

  • DeathsRose
    17 years ago

    My best friend told me the other day that one of my ex-friends told his g/f that I was flirting with him.

    She came up to me today at school and said "If you are gunna flirt with my b/f then do it infront of me" And she wasn't being really nice about it the way she said it. So I said "I havn't flirted with him since you started going out"

    I was lieing to her when I said that, butI also tell him the same thing (that I don't flirt with him anymore) I don't want to ruin their relationship so I say that.

    My ex-friend who told her said I told her (my ex-friend) and I never did. She is mad at me for something that happened previously and I think she is just trying to get back at me.

    Today I began thinking and I think that maybe I should just stop being friends with my best friend; that way I'll stop flirting with him and then his g/f will probbbly be happy that I am out of his life and hers.

    He told me 2 weeks ago when he called me that he wanted to say something to her about not liking me. He said that he's known me for 4 yrs and only known her for 1.5 yrs and she just had to accept the fact that we are really good friends. But I don't think he should. I think if he does then she will get mad at him and not want to be with him anymor and then he may be mad at me.

    I don't know what to do. Does anyone have any advice?

  • Just Lucy
    17 years ago

    Yes I have some advice for you....

    definately do not ditch him over this!!! if your personality is just flirtacious than she has to learn to deal with that. you shouldn't have to step aside for his gf, she should be stepping aside for you! to have a true best friend is a blessing, it really is! you can't just throw it away. i was in a similar situation to yours once, i was living with my best mate Nick and than he got a gf, who turned into fiance and she moved in with us, she couldn't handle mine and nicks friendship because we were close, she got jealous because Nick was tlking to me and she threw a psycho at me and kicked me out of MY place. i told her that I will only leave if Nick asks me to face to face, he never did, but she would always bitch to nick about me, and make shit up, and he started believing everything she said so i left, i just left and he wont talk to me anymore at all because 'i ditched him' its not fair ya know. so defiantely dont stick by him. best friends are called best friends for a reason. 'best friends forever' u cant break that!.

  • DeathsRose
    17 years ago

    Yeah thats just my personality...He has a g/f and I have a b/f and I'm not one to mess with relationships like that.

    Also yesterday as I was leaving school he stopped me and started talking to me about how he hated the fact that his g/f yelled at me, and that he really wants to say something to her because he never wants to stop being friends with me.