J 3 a L 0 u $ Y !? M e!?

I have this guy-friend.. i've known hime for years now. He's 20 yrs old. and we used to like eachother.. we still do but my dad got mad.. told him to back off.. and to "just wait". I miss him like soo much.. but it's been months now that he's "backed off" and now.. we're sorta moving on. No I don't have anyone else.. and he has never gotten over me. But I think he is now.. with a friend of mines.. they're talking on the phone and texting each other a lot... i miss him... but now.. i donno how i feel.. i thought i've gotten over him! but i guess not.. my sister hates him cuz they used to like eachother.. but she hates him now. *sighs* she says that i deserve wayyyy better than him.. she doesn't want me to ever like him again... is it okay for me to be jealous and to miss him though?

Jealousy is human nature.
you cant help it and you are entitled to it.
same goes for missing him.
your sister has experience with him so i understand why she is looking out for her sister, she wants what is best for you, but at the same time, it is normal to want what you shouldn't have. does your friend know what went on between to you two? is it maybe the fact that he has gotten over you with a friend that is making it worse?

good luck.

True, I mean, she does ssay that "he's so corny," and that, "you need a guy who's more spiritual than you are so that he can always help you out and help you make the right decisions." She just says that over and over again. And it is true. My family and I need to only "marry in the lord" and in the same religion. He needs to be very spiritual and qualified, who always follows God's principles and such. JC isn't like that. *sighs* I guess I have to really get over him huh?