Help Please!

Alright, I'm going to give everyone the cliff notes version. It's still long so I appreciate anyone who reads it. Any advice is appreciated.

I met this girl last September when I started at a new job. We became fast friends and quickly became best friends. We developed feelings for each other quickly. And started going out about one month later. Things were good for the first couple months. I really love this girl though it's only about to be 6 months. But around January she started changing. She was thinking about her ex's and dreaming about other guys. And not in the "saying hi" way, they were the bad kind of dreams you don't want your girlfriend to have about other men. I question her about it and she denies that she has any feelings about her ex's or any of the guys in her dreams. She tells me she loves me. Then she kinda slips and she tells me that she was thinking about going by her ex's house and kissing him and not telling me because she thinks she needs to "get it out of her system."I confront her about it and tell her maybe we should just be friends and she starts crying hysterically telling me she only wants to be with me and no one else and she can't just be friends with me cause she'll only think of how she wants more.

All advice is appreciated. I'd love some women's point of view on this too. I've had my female friends points of view on the subject. But i'd like outside sources. Again, thanks for reading all of that. Any advice on action to take is appreciated too.

Thank you

Well, it wasn't that long. Alright, I think that she is playing you. When a girl has dreams about her ex's and then "slips" and tells you she wants to kiss them, sorry hun, but that's your cue to end it. From what I'm gathering, she doesn't really care about you. It's like the song "Waiting For My Ruca". You're not the only one, but you are the best... If you can live with that, then good luck. If not, it's best to move on. Hope I helped.

Ciao~

Well I still think about my ex but that is a different story since he is my best friend and the first proper friend I've ever had. if she loves you she'll tell you what she thinks and feels, the fact that she wasnt gonna tell you is the que something isnt alright

She's using you. If she really loved you she wouldn't be thinking about going over to her ex's and kissing him. Ignore the tears all girls are good at that myself included.

Hey hun..
k k well a dream is a dream and they dont really mean much.. they just thoughts really but nothing else... but thing is love what bothers me is that she has told you that she was thinking about going over to her ex's house and kissing him to get it out of her system... hmmmmmm i wood becareful there!!!

and the time scale aint really anything to worry bout to be honest some relationships happen fast aand some dont... god i got with my bloke after two dates and i had only known him a minth and 4 months later we are still together!!!!

some girls do play on the tears... crocodile tears they are... but u gotta seriously watch out because youll prob end up getting hurt and y let yourself get hurt when these warning signs are happening...

but she could also be crying out for attension and she could be testing you... you see few of my girl mates do this and few of my lad mates birds do this to them and it frustrates me because y be like it there is no need!!!
so sweet my advice is you GOTTA do wot is best for you and if need be you ignore them tears and you walk away and dont lk bk because she could be playing you...

im normally good judge at these things but im little baffald... erm there gotta be a reason for her to be telling you she having these dreams etc etc...

take care hope i helped

I mean, technically she did tell me. But it just bothered me how it came up. like she rubbed it in my face. We were joking around with each other and she was like, "I was gonna go to Steve's house and hook up with him and not tell you."

that just didn't seem the right way to tell me that sort of thing. She told me about all her dreams though.

Thanks for all your help so far everybody. I appreciate it.

U DOnt NeEd her, cuz that ain't kewl, dont care if she wuz jokin or not that's just wrong......dump her

I know it's wrong. believe me i know. it hurt. but i can't just "dump her" it's probably gonna be the hardest thing i've ever had to do. but i think i have no choice at this point.