I have him but I'm not sure if I still want him...

Okay, so I've liked this guy Mike for like three years...and now I'm finally "dating" him but I'm not really sure if I feel the same...its almost as if I only wanted him because I couldn't have him, but I have all of these controversal thoughts that I can't seem to straighten out...please help me!

I have been and, in fact, am in the same situation right now. My suggestion would be to just discuss it with him. Tell him how you feel and stuff. How does he act with you? Does he act like he couldn't live with out you, or is he more distant?

Sorry people...disregard my last question...he did the honors of breaking it off...but now I feel horrible, because on wednesday we "did stuff" and then on thursday he broke up with me because there wasn't a "connection" okay who the hell says "connection"? I mean really, and now he's been like flirting with these three different girls...all of which I can't stand...OMG!!! I don't want anything to do with the opposite sex...!!! Sadly, I say this now, tommorow I have a feeling that it won't bee true...oh, so controversal...well, thanx for your help anyway...