my bffs with my ex

my best firned is whith my ex boyfriend who i stil have very strong feelings for and im so uncomfertable seeing them together in school i really want to be with this guy and last i know he wanted to be with me but hes with my friend or w/e but yeah hes suposed to "seehow things go" this week and then see what happens.....gimme a break.....its just so sad that he stays with her and it jsut breaks my heart because i nkow that i am so much better for him and i would treat him 100 times better than she does but i guess i wont get my chance sisnce hes to blind to see the truth....well i jsut needed a place to vent so yeah if you guys have any advice to give me that would be great

Love,
Sam

well honestly i think it's just cruel of your friend to be with your ex when you still want him. you need to hav a serious talk with her an tell her that if she's gonna hurt you by bein with him then she could at least try an appreciate him.

sounds like your jealous, but its a normal human emotion that everyone experiences some time in life. I was in a similar position before, but my best friend had to be with the girl i like because they were in the same debating team. Thus, it was understandable why they were together. Nevertheless, i did feel jealous, but i did not want to overreact and get paranoid about it or i could say or do something i might regret and lose both of them.
Try and avoid seeing them together or at least try and take ur mind off them with something more important. Dwelling about them will only make you feel worse. Trust me about that! But, if it really bothers you, voice ur concern with ur best friend, but do it in a nice way, don't start to accuse him/her of anything.
Hope you can get over it. Take care!

Oh god, oh my god, OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!

Grr...this makes me so mad...

This is EXACTLY what happened to me at the begginning of the year! I know exactly how you feel!

It's the most gut wrenching heart breaking thing in the whole world and i want you to know if you ever need anyone to talk to, you can talk to me.

My alleged best friends actually chose him over me basically. My best friend of 8 years told me to just 'get over it' and they were flirting and sitting on him and ugh!!!!!!!!! it just makes me so mad that this is happening to other people. You can talk to me anytime you want, just post here or email me or something. I know when this was happening to me, all I needed was someone to listen to me and stop trying to tell me to get over it and judging me.

I'm always here ok? :) I'll check this thread again tomorrow.

It makes me mad to, it is exactly the same situation I'm going through at the moment, only i don't still have feelings for him but I'm mad at my mate because she kept lying and stuff.

Hey look how about you try and ignore them for a few days and see what they do?

I know, I know, this is rubbish advise but i you wan tto talk just email me or some thing, ok?

Hope you are feeling better soon,