True love

I've been infatuated with a beautiful young lass for nearly 2 1/2 years now. We thought about dating once and then we changed our minds. By we, I really mean she, but now we're going to prom together and we've been on several dates. I was always there when she needed to have a friend and yet I made sure I never invaded into her privacy and she never invaded mine. It got to the point where we were comforting each other even before we knew exactly what was wrong. I have a good feeling about this but i wonder is this true love?

*Note* Thanks to all who will hopefully post and give support or their opinion.

~Respectfully yours,
AOTD/Kurt

If u think about her and want to be with her all the time then yes it is True Love. Hope this helps...=)

~Sexy Beast~

Sounds like it to me. if you want to be with her more than a friend and the feeling is mutual and you both can't stop thinking about each other, i would say yes. and if you've known her this long you definitely know her well enough to not be surprised by anything. (unlike me. lol)

Definitely sounds like true love.

There seems to be a moral understanding between you both. It may just be true love. :)

I s'pose that is right. It seems like everything is going so well and i really want to be reassured but you're right. I'd rather be prepared. In this particular case ignorance isn't bliss. Thanks all for commenting, and any other advice or opinions would be greatly appreciated.

-AOTD/Kurt

"Lets not get his hopes up, guys. It may not be"

^^BRITT! I was taking the 'BE POLITE' road! ;)

^^ i agree with britt

LOL. You couldn't play along, could you? :|

TRAITOR.

;]

Why would we play along if shes gonna get hurt anyway....

Okay Colby, i really hope you read other peoples discussions a lil' bit closer or that above was a typo because i'm not a she... Btw in response to Britt, I wouldn't be so insane as to throw out such a statement so early. While i wouldn't mind hearing her tell me its true love, i'm sure that that scene wouldn't go over well with me telling her that. Its just that this is my first relationship and i'm incredibly nervous. Rumors are circulating that when her ex joins the musical she's in they'll get back together. I know rumors are rumors but...
Anyway, thanks for the support and realism. Both are traits that i'll need for (hopefully) months to come.

-AOTD/Kurt

Personally i don't believe in true love anymore. I can't trust anyone, and all love does is break you. But if you feel like you love her, that you wanna b with her always and you can see yourselves together in the coming years, maybe it is true love

I don't much use l33t speak. But roflmfao. Thanks for the support.

-AOTD/Kurt

If you're referring to AOTD's poetry, it would make sense that his poems are merely based on a 'chik’ with pretty ‘blue eyes' because he likes a girl with blue eyes...?! If you bothered reading ANY of the posts you'd understand..

Well... I'd say that... based on how cautious you are about the whole situation, and the fact that you've been on dates and are going to prom and stuff... and that you guys are really good friends... I'd say that... there's a good chance of it being true love, but I'm not sure I'd call it that just yet. Give you two time to actually be together as a couple first to figure it out... how does it make you feel to be around her?.. or how does it make you feel when you two have to leave?

now for the true question.... are you... asking for our opinions?.. or are you asking for clarification that you're in love?... if you're asking for our opinions... that's fine... if you're asking us if we think you're in love.. weeelllll..... True Love doesn't need confirmation my friend =)

I believe that is correct, love shouldn't need confirmation. However, I am curious to know if I'm running into this blindly hoping or do i have a valid reason to think that we might really actually be in love? In response to how we feel when we have to leave lets just say that... In accumulation I've been a total of 13 hours past curfew in 3 dates. As for being around her it literally feels like we're the only two in the whole world. I mean i can sit and talk to her and not even notice the time passing by. I mean we sat and talked for an hour in the pouring rain at like 10:30 at night.
Again thanks for all the support and comments. Keep them coming.

-AOTD/Kurt

P.S. Yes she does have blue eyes and they are magnificant. Although I have nothing against brown eyes *cough mine are cough*. Anywho, just thought i'd throw that out there.

Well.. I can't really answer for if "we" are in love... for I'm afraid I don't know her thoughts on the topic... but I can answer that... if you feel as you say you do.. TRUELY.. about when your with her and when you're apart... then yes... You are more than likely in love =)... You've known her for 2 and a half years?... you definately aren't blindly running into anything... but don't just assume that you have it all made and that everything is gonna work out all smooth-like... It's best not to get cocky. But take it slow for a little longer. You have only been on 3 dates? maybe a few more?... got a little ways to go, and personally?.. I'd get HER thoughts before pressing the matter too much. =)

Well, we've been on more than 3 dates. But that was just an example of what happens when we're together. Yes, i know, i don't think i've got it made. In fact i'm terrified of screwing something up. This is my first relationship... or well hopefully it will be? Err.. yea. Wait. You can't read minds?!? What good are you? Just kidding of course. Oh well, thanks for your opinion and comments. All are greatly appreciated.

-AOTD/Kurt

Being terrified is also a sign that you might be in love.. hehe... well I'll cross my fingers for ya my friend =)... Hope I've helped at least a little bit.. and good luck to yas

Thank you very much. You have been a help.

-AOTD/Kurt

*Update*

I don't really know how to put this... After 4 days of being "Boyfriend/Girlfriend" we broke up. I always thought that we were on the same page and after I asked her out on Prom I believed she thought the same. This wasn't true...

-AOTD/Kurt