Should i tell him how i feel?

One of my sort of guy friends, tht ive known for 4 yrs...i really really like him now, but i dont wanna tell him cuz i think it would probly make it akward seeing as how weve known eachother so long.
He flirts w/ me sometimes but I think hes jus tht type of guy... sometimes he tickles me on my sides and then pretends he didnt do it when i turn around...and hes always teasing me saying i look weird or "emo/goth" today. and im always like....well you look like a mouse. and he knows everything about my house down to wht color my carpet in my room is. he like stalks me. but he says he likes this other girl tht already has a bf but is more of his friend then me. so i dont know. do you think i should tell him how i feel or would tht ruin everything. and please dont make a comment about how young and its jus a crush cuz i know tht but it doesnt matter to me.

I wouldnt tell him. If there isnt gonna be a future, there is no piont in getting your heart broken. Now that DOES matter. I recently got mine broken and have been scarred pretty badly. If you really wana tell this guy the way you feel, wait until you are really sure this is what you want and be prepared for the consequences. Xx Chrissie

I disagree. I believe you should know or you would be spending all your time with him going 'does he... doesn't he??'. Tell him, it may make things awkward for a while but it will pass and you can move on.

I say tell him because he might feel the same way if you dont then there is just what could have been

^^^ True, just go for it. Live by the Nike quote "Just Do It".

Give time, time. a heartbreak isn't exactly the greatest feeling. If it's meant to happen then it will. But if you get impatient and want to tell him then it's your choice. But many people will tell you differently because of their experiences and what they've learned

I think evry person should take the chance.I took a chance with the guy i liked and he didnt all the way like me like that, but we are still friends. Some people are understanding with the way they feel about other people. So i would take the chance. If you dont, some day you might regret the fact that he is with some else and not with you. TAKE THE CHANCE

How will you know there wont be a future if u dont say anything to him???

I agree, just do it

If you feel awkward I would wait until you are sure of how you feel.

Your never going to know until you talk to him, so talk to him. dont pour your heart out though as that is a recipe for disaster, ask him if he wants to go to the pictures or something but make it clear its not as friends-that it would be a date.

if all else fails, at least you have him as a friend.

October x

U should tell him..im in the middle of the same problem and im gonna speak my mind. because just like how everyone has been sayin, you'll never know until u try, and u don't want to ever look back and regret it. if it turns out that he doesnt feel the same, well if ur friendship is strong enough then u will surely get through it :) Good Luck!

I think you really need to tell him. Just let him know that your feelings for him have become stronger over the time you got to know him. And that you want to know if he likes you. If you don't tell him he will never know how you feel. And you might never know if he felt the same about you until it is too late.

I really hope this has helped. And please let us know how things go.
good luck
Kalee

If you tell him and he acts different around you, he isn't someone you can count on to be your boyfriend and then not break your heart. If you know he loves you back the same way..go for it cos then you know he's the type of guy you can rely on. Maybe he's just saying he likes the other girl to cover up his real feelings...I dunno