I have a question 4 the girls

Why do girls move in groups, cuz it really makes it hard 4 guys to ask the girl they like out.......

Not all girls do, and it's an insecurity deal usually. Just pull the girl you want to talk to, aside.

I'd have to agree, you'll have to pull the girl aside.

I'm always in a group of friends, cuz all the friends I have are in seperate groups really..and every girl I know is in a group at most times, but if you REALLY want to date her, than you'll have to ask her, and if she''s always in a group, than you'll have to pull her aside.

Haha unfortunately, us girls are always in groups.
if you really wanna ask her out, just pull her aside (its really not that scary lol), or find her when shes alone, usually at, say, her locker or walking through the halls (if we're alone at all during hte day, its usually at those times) or walking to a place no one goes with her - if she ever is alone

If you really wanted to date her, you would ask her out infront of her friends

Actually Colby, you wouldn't. There's a difference between asking someone out because you like and asking someone out because you them a lot. You're more afraid of the answer so you wouldn't exactly want to ask in front of everyone. You'd want to get them alone to judge their reaction.

Tell her you want to speak to her about something, get her alone and then ask her sweets

*Gem*

Yeah, pull her aside. i know my friend was always complaining about how we girls always clique, and we ended up sending one of our friends to go slap some sense into him, and she came back with a boyfriend. O_O fancy that.

~~rikki, aka SSS~~

"She'll describe word for word how ya did it."

^^Very true, so do it right, lmao!! Ok, yeah, everyone else here has already said it. Pull her aside, Britt is right, honestly, we just walk together, we're not attached at the hip or anything.

.:Danielle:.

Actually Colby, you wouldn't. There's a difference between asking someone out because you like and asking someone out because you them a lot. You're more afraid of the answer so you wouldn't exactly want to ask in front of everyone. You'd want to get them alone to judge their reaction.

Tell her you want to speak to her about something, get her alone and then ask her sweets

*Gem*

^ The way i look at it... is that the girl would admire you bravery. She doesnt want to be pulled aside anyway... thats why she is in the group, because she doesnt want to be alone. If you ask her in front og her friends. THen it shows bravery and that you would do anything to go out with her and that you want to be with her.... but

really i think it depends on the girl really..

^ Exactly what I think. Guys are in groups just as often as girls, and usually harder to pull away. Guys are oblivious :) Haha, but anyway...I would personally, rather be pulled aside (not that I travel in groups anyway).

Yeah...all of a girl's friends are going to find out every single word u said. just pull her aside...or write her a note, even though being in peron is more romantic.

Confidence... and so that they don't look like a total loser walking around by themselves... but if you wanna ask a girl out.. just pull her away from her friends and then just do it.. .

I agree with that, but I can tell that it is harder to pull someone aside than many think. You get scared and nervous, but you know you really want that person to give you an answer. In addition, if the person is in a group, you could get embarresed if the group giggles or turns away. But, if you really care about that person, you will build up confidence and get the courage to speak without fear. I think it could go anyway myself. But, I think you have a lot of confidence and when the moment shows itself, you should go for it! You never know. That moment may show itself sooner than you think....

I personally don't normally travel in groups *always by myself* but if a guy liked me and I was with a group of friends then I'd want him to pull me aside to ask me. It means more to me when it's one on one =) Personally I hate it that guys always move in groups because I get nervous enough talking to guys lol If you like her enough then you'll find a way to get her on her own to ask her =)
*crosses fingers* Hope that things work out great for you =)
***Rhea***

"and so that they don't look like a total loser walking around by themselves..."

^How insecure can you get? Don't worry about walking around alone if YOU know you're not a loser. Walking around alone shows confidence, so quit judging.

Some girls move in groups because their good friends and maybe have the same classes together so just move in groups to the class. I just walk with one friend to classes that she has near me or that we have together. Other then that I walk alone.

Well I am always alone....but other girls like to move in groups because sometimes they dont want to be alone or they just want to hang out with their friends cuz they mite hav the same classes or just hang out a lot..

"^ The way i look at it... is that the girl would admire you bravery. She doesnt want to be pulled aside anyway... thats why she is in the group, because she doesnt want to be alone. If you ask her in front og her friends. THen it shows bravery and that you would do anything to go out with her and that you want to be with her.... but

really i think it depends on the girl really.."

You're right it does depend on the girl, cos out of the vast majority of my friends (myself included) we wouldn't want to get asked out in front of friends. We feel put on the spot and awkward.

And cos we're girls ourselves, i think we know =)

I agree that we do value bravery...but every once in a while, it's kinda fun to get pulled away from the group...it singles you out, and if the guy has the bravery to pull you away from group, then it's just as good...

Sorry but it's just something that we do. Habbit I guess. It's not our fault that we go every where with our girls. But you know if you want to talk to a girl just pull her aside and trust me it won't matter.

Hmm... why we move in groups?

To make sure guys really tried to get us, you know, had to fight for it...

No, Im making no sense..

I have no idea really, haha, its just the way it is

Some girls like the feel of friends around for their support

I dont travel in groups..btw I am Christen I am fairly new on this site. I travel with alot of guys though beings that I am a Car Freak.

Haha, we travel in groups? because (at least for me and my friends) we are all so busy with school work and sports and stuff that we barely get to hang out except between classes, and occasional weekends

Lol. thats funny. and a very complex question...=]] we work in mysterious wayss

We get lonely when we're alone...

She travels in groups because no one else has done the favor of taking a special interest in her. Trust me, if a girl feels that she is special to one particular person, she'll pay that person a great deal of attention.

If you really like her and want to date her, you should ask her infront of her friends. Most girls would find that really sweet. And if you get along well with her friends, that sometimes helps out.

I would say if you really love her, not just a pitty date, try to pull her aside and stuff, kind of sercetly...like just don't walk up to her and be like hey can i talk to ya!...that might freak her out ...but like go up to her in the group and start talking just to her and lie if the group is walking then maybe slow your pace down and maybe the girl will stop and talk to you

Girls travel in packs because, well they're girls and its what they do! they're never alone if you havent noticed. lol, try going up to the group and ask the girl u like if you can talk to her really quick.

Pull her aside like the other girls said.... we walk around in groups for many reasons but a good girl will not mind moving to hear what you have to say!

:-)

Cuz you need your girls there to have ya back and if a guy has the balls enough to come up to you with all your gurls then that just says something about a guy and you want that! I always go places with my girls cuz if a guy wants to talk to me its like i need there approval!

Not all girls do and we do cause we love being surronded by others and love attention u wanna ask her out just go up and say it wether there is others there or not

Girls just like being with friends all of the time. Personally, I just don't like being alone. When I'm going some where, I don't want to go alone because I want someone to talk to and have fun with. It's borning by yourself and lonely.

I, personally, want to test the guy...If he really wants to go out with me then he won't care who hears him do it...I learned the hard way that if I guy doesn't want your friends or anyone for that matter to hear you ask them out that they aren't really that interested...

I don't think it's insurcerity... my friends and i just like to hang out... but no guys @ our skool have any trouble...lol

Girls travel in groups so guys can make a fool of themself in front of all the girls instead of just one, lol only joking. But yea if you want to talk to one of them say" hea i really need to talk to you" and pull her to the side, its that easy

The same answer over and over again

Yes we get lonely when we are alone..and aniwaiz..girls would luv to be alone if they no dat a guy'z gonna ask her out..lol..haha..

pulling her aside maybe hard for u guys..well dan..ask her when shi's alone..if pulling her aside is hard for u....

Wt( u'r only 13??