Crushing on Co-Workers... them crushing back

  • xViagraTheCookiex
    17 years ago

    Okay.. i have this huge thing for my boss.. who is only a year older.. and he has a thing for me.. i found that out through his cousin cause he was talkin to her and he didn't kno me n her knew eachother... and yeah... and another person i work with has a thing for me too... and people come up to me and ask if hes asked me yet.. and being totally clueless i say what now?? and yeah.. i dnt kno what to do... arg

  • limp
    17 years ago

    You're clueless so you say 'what now?', yet you actually know so that doesn't make sense? go for the one you like, if you like either; just because they like you, doesn't mean you're now forced to choose.
    you don't have to date any of them if you don't want to, but if you do, go for it.
    you sounded more excited about the boss one, but whatever. no one's forcing you.
    you may disappoint the other one for a short amount of time, but they'll get over it.
    or just date one and cheat on him with the other one, that could always work. :]!
    x

  • The Queen of Spades
    17 years ago

    CAREFUL, CAREFUL, CAREFUL! *don't do it* seriously...relationships are work can REALLY complicate things. I would not suggest it...but I know several people where it has worked out...of course I know double that amount of people who it has screwed over...myself, included, SEVERAL times of screwage.

  • silvershoes
    17 years ago

    Where do you work? What do you do?

  • 19Rusty
    17 years ago

    Just go for it, you only live once.

  • Colby
    17 years ago

    It will prob be a lil awkward if things dont work out

  • The Queen of Spades
    17 years ago

    Was that for me daesnyrs? I work at Century Theatres, a movie theatre.

  • xViagraTheCookiex
    17 years ago

    Okay its me again.. just diff name... but now i only have a huge "omg i think im in love" thing for my boss..(hes only 1 year older) but he told me that he has a thing for a girl that likes him one week and doesn't the next.. and that hurt... but i still have all these feelings for him.. and now after work when i go to sleep.. all my dreams include him.. i dnt want this.. but i do soooo bad... its been a while since i've felt like this cause the last guy i've felt this way about cheated on me with a 12 year old.. eww... and that hurt like hell.. and now i start to feel the same way about another guy months and months later and its totally the wrong person at the wrong time.. noo... :(:(

  • silvershoes
    17 years ago

    No, the questions were for the poster.

  • The Queen of Spades
    17 years ago

    Yeah poster, where do you work??

  • xViagraTheCookiex
    17 years ago

    .......

  • xViagraTheCookiex
    17 years ago

    I couldn't read the post i put above this.. the answer is wendy's... sadly.. first place to hire me.. then about 7 more places called after.. it was weird

  • xViagraTheCookiex
    17 years ago

    Okay so the one i liked a bit asked me out and we dated... it only lasted a week.. he ended it because hes not over his last ex of 3 1/2 years... and i am totally destroyed... i dnt have any feelings for the other guy that i kno of and my ex told me to go out with the other one... im so confused.. he told me to still talk to him and he is ignoreing me.... i told him ill wait for when hes ready to get back together... but idk how long that'll be... urg! soo lost