I just need some advice..

I've bee friends with a guy for about 2 years now...And i like to think me and him were clsoe. I mean we basically talked everynight for at least 2 hours about nonsense...We new pretty much each other's life stories and we were just comfortable with each other. But lately...he's been..i don't want to say lying because honestly? He could be telling the truth. But some he said i KNOW was a lie because i checked it out through VERY reliable sources and he lied about it...So i called him to confront him about it and he kinda was like...cold and all guy like. So i just kinda...flipped out. He said he didnt care and he;s said it before i know it's just cause he's angry. You know when someone says they hate you when they're REALLY aggrivated? It's like that. But yea i kinda flipped about and said stuff i didnt mean. And usually i know i can call him up and apologize and everything's ok...but i'm sick of always apologiaing even when i know that i did nothing wrong. Before anyone assumes anything, i usually take alot of the blame so a good 97% of the time i do honestly believe i did something wrong. But i'm sick of it. And that other 3% he REALLY did something wrong and I apologize for it. It's aggrivating to the point where i've been getting sick from stressing over it. The thing is i have really strong feelings for the kid and he knows; being i've told him before. It's kind of that unspoken thng. Because he's admitted he has feelings for me to but the fact that there's about a 4 year age difference makes him uncomfortable i guess. I don't know...But anyway...A friend of mine says that it's good that i told him off and that i most likely wont talk to him anymore. But i hurt him and it's driving me insane. I really care about him. And alot of people say this is just niave and silly. but isn't love always niave and silly? And alot of people will say it's not love. So isnt infatuation always silly? I'm willing to let him go...it just hurts...Please help?

-Melissa

Is he 14 aswell? in that case it might just be him growing up! guys can be a bit weird for a period, try to give him some space to find himself!

Hmmm. I don't know what to say honestly? I mean if you think letting him go will help on the long run do it, just do what you feel YOU should do. We can give you all the advice in the world darling, but it's not going to help in the end, because it's your choice on what you do.

"Is he 14 aswell?"

do you not read? she said he's 4yrs older than her. he's 18.
basically, write down what you've put here, instead of about him, directing it TO him, and say you're sick of apologising but you care about him and you want him to apologise for things he's done wrong every once in a while, and you still want to be friends so you hope he understands.
or call him and tell him, or face to face, whatever suits you best.
x

Your young you should be going out with lots of different people. Not talking in a horrish manner or anything, but your young, and no offense while we are young we have no clue of love, because I thought I did but when I really stopped and thought about it, it wasn't, just another good experience for myself,that I got to experience.