Im never good enough

I constantly fail at everything i do i am never good enough for anybody i was good enough for a girl called victoria but she cheated on me and broke my heart i was good enough for two friends but they commited suicide i am tired of not being good enough for everyone around me even though im trying my best what should i do??

Many people fail, some harder than other's. I know I have failed before and I don't like too.
I never gave up, I kept going, knowing I would suceed for myself.
The pain some times is unbareable.I felt that pain so many times, but that is where a true friend come in. Find a friend you can trust, and know will always be there.
With the cheating and broken heart.I understand but you have to realize the pain is for the best. I know I would rather face the pain then continue loving that person when they where untrue. For the solution: Find A girl that know's and loves you. A true and careing person.
Sometime's people care for you they just don't show it.
If this doesn't help Im sorry.
I hope you Find the right answer.
Good look and Best wishes.
Elaine

We are all failures, that is the truth, but you just hav e to stand tall and try to make it through, i don't know if this will help, but i hope you can make it, i have felt this way so many times, but i know there are people out there supporting me, and so i support you...
i hope this helps you
gabriella

Thanks deepest love but what happens when you have no friends that truly care and love you and what happens when you wont let yourself love ??????

Ohh, i truly hope that you can find someone(s) who will love you, but i still will be your friend, and you should let yourself love, it makes life alot easier sometimes..
gabriella

Sounds to me like the people around you are the ones that have failed.
Cheating, suicide.. I consider both of them things 'failure'.

Look at your life, what in it have you failed at?
Why don't you take those things, and forget them...
Start new.. And, become someone you want to be, and someone you're proud of.
But, don't change if you're not the one who's a failure..

I agree with Teria. You are the one that has stayed honest and true to yourself and you're loved ones around you. These aren't failures but rare qualities in a person these days. Who cares what other people expect of you?? This is your life and you're the one that has to live with it. Be proud of yourself and don't listen to what others have to say.

You know when you said your not good enough for anybody?
Hun You good enough for me you've always been by my side no matter what happens to me,, We've been through the wars but yet we still hold on strong.
There is always going to be 1 person in this world that loves you!! I care so much about you but you,, I don't know you care so much for others and I should know this but care for yourself as well as the ones you care for!!
Huni I wish you the best in the future...This is not much of good advise,, It's mainly because im broken to hear that you feel this way.
Love you lots and lots!! Roxy/Emily!! Like my msn name says...Don't let your tears come in the way of your dreams!!

Emo mummy and roxy thanks ur great hep bu i mean it when i say i cant love theres only one person who i have evr loved and now i dnt care for love i have loads of it but no one to give it to and i am a failure in most things i just got so hurt by this one girl she was the downfal of happy james she killed my happyness my ability to love my confidence and she led me into the depths of depression ( i dont want anyone screaming at me that one girl cant do that to a person cause she has ) i have never loved myself i hate myself

James,, I have no idea what to type My mind is blank. You had love for this one person and she pulled you down,, That had once happened to me,, Hun I hate to see you hurt and I never want to think about you being hurt but Inside I know you are. Some day james your going to have to leave the past behind,, Its not easy I know. You have to accept what god's given you even tho you think he's given you nothing. That girl who done this to you is stupid cause she obviously does not see the side of you that she hurt!!
The only way you can stop this firstly is to love yourself!!
You need to have self confidence and show her who you really are,, a guy that will truly cares and is strong. Hun I know your a brave guy,, You've been through alot and I hope you make it through.....xx Roxy/Emily

Thankyou i will try

We all think like that at some time.

david

Ever think Victoria and those two friends weren't good enough for you?

Mistakes are what makes us human. If they say youre not good enough for them, theyre not good enough for you.
Find someone you can trust to stick by you if you fall.

It's not that you arn't good enough for anyone. You just have to be patient and wait for the right person. If you need anyone to talk to I'm always here. Here is my e-mail fc_irish_girl_2008@yahoo.com.