Is it wrong 2 do this?

~ Hi im 13yrs of age and have been seeing a 15yrold for bout a month now and i must say he's one of the most amazing guys iv met. But my parents and his parents r not happy wiv our relationship cuz of the 2 year gap which i think is so unfair and silly! At the moment im sneaking out 2 c him early mornings although we c each at skool its still hard coz it seems as though no1 wants us 2 be 2getha! I rele like him and dnt want 2 break things off coz this is where i feel my hearts wants 2 be! Is it rong 2 do this, shud i follow my heart and fite for him? please post back ur opinions im in a big pickle~ xxx Emily xxxx

To a certain extent what you are doing is wrong. Only the part about sneaking out. Sneaking out lowers your parents trust for you. But I think you should follow your heart. I have dated a guy that was like almost a year and a half older than me, and I like a guy who is 18 (I'm 15). A two year gap isn't really that much, though to parents it seems like an eternity. Try talking to your parents and tell them the same thing you have said here about wanting to be with him because it is what your heart wants. If you actually talk to them, rather than go behind their backs about it, they may see your side of it. That works with my parents....

At that age people are usually skeptical, but in my opinion 2 years really isn't very long. One of my sisters dated a guy who was 10 years older, that is definately pushing it, but two years, big deal. I would be honest with your parents, and once they realize you are going to keep seeing him, maybe they'll take it easy on you.

hey i don't think that you can help who you like. thats what i told my parents when i waz dating a guy who was 3 years older (i waz 13 he was 16) i never had to sneak out but they made it clear that they didn't like the realition ship but didn't o ne thig bout it because he lived in West Vrigina and i live in Indiana. but when they (my friend was dating his brother) wanted to come up to c us. their parents flipped and grounded them and took away their cars, and me and my friends parents wouldn't let us leave the house unless we were with them . it was crazzy but if you like a persoon nothing can keep you appart. I think your parents know that bit just don't want you to rush in to somthing with a guy who has had more experince. Sorry this wasn't much help but atleast now you know that other pep go through the same thing.
love always
PK

u obviously like him a lot so i say fite for him. only u know if he's really worth it. every1 will learn to except him in da end especially if they realise ur not goin to leave him, cuz then they hav no choice bt 2 except him

ok 2 years may seem like a big gap to ur parents but my friend at 15 had sex with her 27 year old bf and my other friend who is 17 just dated a 23 year old and is now chasing a 27 y.o. So i think 2 years is fine.

Oh yeah and my other friends parents are married and they are 15 years apart, i don't get it though, i think that's kinda gross really.

My boyfriend is 1 and 4 months older than me... he is 15 and right now I am 14... I don't think it is wrong that you are going out with him, I just think that sneaking out to see him...

okay... i think age gaps really arent that big of a deal... most of the time... but i can totally see where people are coming from when they tell you not to be in this relationship... if you two really care about each other... which i kinda doubt at your age and having only been together for a month... you can both wait.... wait till you both are in high school together. then it wont seem like that big of an age gap and you two most likely know more about your feelings towards each other and have gotten the chance to grow to know each other better. I dont mean to sound bitchy! im sorry if i do! thats just my opinion!

hmm? Intersting..lol

vadz why did you give yopur username, I'm confused? aint it vadz?????

Anyway, to the point, I am dating a boy who is nearly 16 (I'm 14) and my parents are fine, although they have a few rules; like we aren't allowed to be in the house alone and we have to let them know when we are seeing each other, but other than that they are fine.

Perhaps if you thought of a few simple rules and then gave a list (only needs to be one or two) to your parents and kept to them then they would be a little happier. Also have your parents met this lad? 'Cause it might help if they know him and can trust him.