I need help about my ex's

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    To be perfectly honest, if you doubt that the relationship will work and that someone is bound to 'get hurt alll over again', then what you have with this guy is not 'love'. It's confusion.

    With the information you've given me, it doesn't seem that this thing was ‘love’ and it will never be, so don’t try and make it. It was probably two very good friends just confused about a lot of crap. Plus, you’re only 14. 14! Come on, you have PLENTY of time for ‘love’.

  • Samantha
    17 years ago

    I feel the same thing!!! I dont know if it is "love" for you, but My ex said after we broke up it was love for him. We since have been talking and starting to get with each other slowly but shirly

  • David
    17 years ago

    Hmmmm, its how you feel. if you can trust him.

    David

  • BeautifulxMess
    17 years ago

    I can promise you, if it's love..you'll know it. Love won't confuse you, it won't hurt you. Love is something that TWO people share among each other. Not just one person. IF he hurts you, you don't love him. You just think you do. And age don't tell you that you're in love but yeah..14 is kinda young. I'm 15, I KNOW I'm in love. I never was confused on bit about him. We've been going out for 1 beautiful year and I don't want to be with anyone else but him. 2 years is a ong time but I didn't find my guy til the end of my 8th grade year and I didn't start feeling love until we were dating 6 months. about.All I can tell you is like Elysuim said, about you're probably not in love you're just confused. And just like my mom told me, "If you're love isn't like it is in the movies, it's not worth going for." And she's so right. My love truly is like a movie. You'll understand hwen it happends to you.
    God Bless <3Tayy

  • Colby
    17 years ago

    ^^ agreed if you knew it was love you would know it... love will only help you through life and it will not hurt you. It will guide you more then anything. If you were in love then you would not have posted this to ask for help... you would know what to do...