Whats the best way? ( for girls )

  • Colby
    17 years ago

    What do you girls think is the best way a guy can say I love you to someone????

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    Well duh.. by saying it... O_o

    .... is this a trick question....

  • Colby
    17 years ago

    Lol no i meant.... like... ARGG you know what i mean..

  • Anne Garcia
    17 years ago

    Well for me.... I think it's so sweet when the guy says, " I won't say I love you because it's said too much, but what I will tell you is that, I would die if you ever stopped loving me."

    Other than that is fine too.. i mean everyone has their own way of telling the girl they love that they love them. Just be honest, and... uhmm... well,, make sure you mean it! period.

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    Haha, this brings back good memories. :P

    The first time my boyfriend told me loved me.. he mumbled it so bad that I wasn't even sure if that's what he said. So I had to make him repeat it lol. And he just kind of threw it in a conversation, very randomly.

    But... it was really cute in a dorky sort of way. :)

    I guess though, to answer your question: as long as you mean it when you say it, then it doesn't really matter. Say it when you're comfortable, and I'm sure she'll appreciate it.

  • Taylor
    17 years ago

    Do you honestly have to say the actual words? Personally, I find it more meaningful when you figure out on your own that someone loves you, due to their actions.

    But thats just me.

  • SomewhereAmongThePieces
    17 years ago

    The first time my boyfriend said those three words I melted... but now he says it every time I look up at him or any time there's a second of silence pretty much anytime and all the time. I know it's supposed to be cute but it's lost it's value because it's become so dull!
    If you want my opinion on the best way to say I love you is pick up on little things she's said she likes or likes to do or wants to do and remember them. Not only are you letting her know that you listen to what she says but you're also showing her that you'd go out of your way to make her smile.

  • Chrissie
    17 years ago

    I think you should say it at least once a day, to make sure your partner or whoever knows that they are loved. But if they say it every minute of every single day, it does become dull. I dont think that you can only say 'i love you' with words. I think you can also say it by the way you treat the other person, and the way you look at them. You know that stare the guy sometimes gives..the long stare, with eyes full of love, and the smile that says 'you are so gawjuss, i just love you'? Well, i think that is special...everyone has different ways of saying 'i love you'..find your way. Xx Chrissie

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    "Lol no i meant.... like... ARGG you know what i mean.."

    ...I don't. What do you mean, dear Colby?

  • Love Panda
    17 years ago

    My bf tell's me he loves me all the time-we speake those imortal words as if they are like any other word, i guess because we both know that we mean it. He tells me he loves me at least once a day weather its in a text or whispered in my ear, whispering in the ear is the best for me, as his breath kind of tickles me and gives me a funny warm feeling inside, and shivers down my back.

    soooo sweet....

    October x

  • ms.understood
    17 years ago

    My boyfriend and i started this thing we say and its really cute..if one of us says "i love you with all my heart", the other one says "and all i have" and then the other one "forever and for always" and finally "always and forever"
    i know it sounds kinda dorky but i thought it was really cute..

  • Truest Lies
    17 years ago

    Perhaps write it on a piece of paper and slip it across the table?

    //T.L.//

  • Silent Screams
    17 years ago

    Just say it plain and simple. . .followed by a hug or a kiss

  • Kalee
    17 years ago

    Well for me, it would be really sweet if the guy said it in a poem that was full of emotion so that I knew he meant every word he wrote. Also maybe a bunch of flowers, or even a red rose (i know they cost a lot) and a box of chocolates. Delivered by the guy of course. Well thats just me.

  • Sandra D
    17 years ago

    Just look her straight in the eye when you say it, thts all i evr wanted

  • SECRET
    17 years ago

    Walk her home one day--and on the way--while walking wid her..hold her hand secretly--n say..be mine!!..GF" ..LOL/

    JUST SAY ILUVYOU..but private is much better to be told dis word"..it'll be so romantic@

  • KemistryKia
    17 years ago

    When you two are silent and looking into eachother eyes, just say it. have passion behind it though, don't be all rough.

  • Sara
    17 years ago

    One of my exes said it to me when we were on top of a ferris wheel....haha.. we were at the top, and it stopped, and he grabbed my hand, and he just looked at me... and we smiled, and he leaned in and kissed me, and he said "i love you, and there is no place id rather be then on top of a ferris wheel with you".. and he kissed me again... it was amazing!!

    another of my exes sent me a txt saying "hey babe meet me at Cranbury park around 6 30".... so i went, and he was there sitting on a picnic blanket, with candles and everything, and when he saw me walking he ran over to me, lifted me off my feet,while hugging me and he said ilysm and i dont want this night to end.... it was perfectt

  • aDORKable x3
    17 years ago

    Sara... those were fricked ADORABLE!!!

    Ciao~

  • i love you
    17 years ago

    The best way a guy can say he loves someone is when he feels the moment is right and he really means it.

    my boyfriend told me one night when we were laying on a couch together watching a movie. it was so adorable because he was nervous saying it, scared i wouldnt feel the same way. sounds cheesy but it was the most exciting moment in our relationship.

    so i just have to say to tell her when u feel it needs to be said. theres nothing special u have to do to make it better. when u say it, she will be more into the emotions than the setting. does that make sense? hope so!

  • Painted By Colors llInLovell
    17 years ago

    My bf and I were walking in the mall. He grabbed me by my arms, spun me around and said "i love you babe" and kissed me. ^.^

  • Painted By Colors llInLovell
    17 years ago

    Well, he whispered it. Yes. ^.^ that was like 9 months ago...

  • The Angel of Secrets
    17 years ago

    Humm, well I dont know, I guess it depends on the person...

  • bianca
    17 years ago

    I think its cute when u (a grl) do somthing really blonde or just funny and u think u look like a dork but he just kisses u and says i love you ......expecially if its the first time hes said it....

  • becca
    17 years ago

    I agree with virtual inocence- she wont be able to resist u.

  • ღ»Lσιѕ«ღ
    17 years ago

    Me and my ex boyfriend one of us would say "i love you, and the other one says i love you more stampeys no eraseys" lol its dorky but it was so cute at the time :)

  • Emily
    17 years ago

    Come up from behind and wrap your arms around her then whisper in her ear, "You know I love you, right?"