family vs boyfriend

when i first went out with my b/f my sister found out so she told my mum & dad that im going out with him and that he does drugs! he doesn't do drugs but last year he got drunk at a party and had sex with a girl. its not his fault coz he was drunk and he told me that he would only get drunk if it was a very very special occasion and i believe him but now my stupid sister told my parents that lie, they hate him..my sister was the one that tried setting us two up but it didn't work and now that we're together, she wants us to brake up! now my dad said if he tried to make me do anything i didn't wanna do or get me in trouble with the law my dad will end our relationship!! also my friend is saying that he only wants sex from me and if he waits too long he will brake up with me. i don't believe that he wants that from me yet coz he said that he will wait until im ready.
who's telling the truth.....my b/f or my friend??

p.s. that so called "friend of mine" spread a rumer that i like a guy but that wasn't true and then she told a guy that i liked i have a crush on him and now he ignores me whenever i see him at school....!!

Hmmm...I don't really know the friend or the b/f so its hard to say. I just sorta have to go by what you tell me. It seems that your friend either cares a lot about you, or is down right mean. I'm not going to tell you to believe your b/f because to be honest I don't think people should trust other people unless they have known each other for years. Your boyfriend may very well like you and want to wait. And thats fine. But just because a guy says he will wait doesn't mean he isn't with you just for sex. Saying he'll wait sets the comfort zone for you so that you believe hes there because he really likes you. And then again like I said he may really want to be with you. You have to observe his actions and his words. Don't have sex with this guy until you have either known each other for a long time or til your married! Your friend sounds a little two-faced. So I would deffinately watch what I tell her! You never know what your friends really think of you until you make them mad.
-BJ

your family can't get in the way of your relationship unless you let it

Well i say you take things slow with him. Make him wait to prove to yourself that he's not all for the $ex. Don't let n e 1 get in the way though! I was in a similar situation and it turned out, all the ppl telling me to break up with him just wanted to hook up with him! Good luck!