What Should I Do?

  • melissa nordmeyer
    17 years ago

    In a previous bullitin i have made i talked about what i should do about my crush on my best friend. i got all really good advice, most of which said that i should tell him how i feel. though i am strongly considering this, i have no idea how to go about it. this friendship means so much to me i hate to see it fall apart, so i dont want to scare him. any ideas as to what i should say?

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    17 years ago

    Don't press it, just tell the person you need to tell them something, keep eye contact no matter how hard it is, and say you don't want to ruin your friendship but... (and then the rest of it)

    Something like that might work, I don't know...but you never know if they feel the same way about you!

  • Lovely Bones
    17 years ago

    If you don't think the friendship will work out after a relationship, then maybe you shouldn't do it. Just wait it out. But this is just my opinion; go with your heart.

  • Haven
    17 years ago

    Ask yourself how much you love him! is it worth the risk or is it just a crush??

    if you say yes then sit down and tell him how you feel

  • melissa nordmeyer
    17 years ago

    Well...i basically told him tonight...not straight forward but i know he knows now...and his reaction...i just know he doesnt like me..bascially tore my heart out. i have never cried this much. but what am i to do now...we're still best friends. we see each other basically everyday. but now i feel it may b to hard to.