TRY THIS.......(bully servay)

Im currently studying youth protic
and i was hopeing some of yu guys can help me out with this simple servay..

(1) when dealing with bulling at school who do you most feel comfortibal talking about it to
(A)friends
(B)teachers
(C) the bullies them selves
(D) parents
(E) dont feel like you can talk to anyone at all

(2) have you bullied someone or have been bullied at you work/school
(A) yes i have been bullied
(B) no never been bullied
(C) yes i have bullied some one
(D) Never bullied anyone

(3) what do bullies most bullie people about
(A) size
(B) looks
(C) things you might like doing
(D) people you hang around

(4) why do you think bullies bully people?
(A) they have been bullied them selves
(B) jelousy
(C) because their friends are doing it aswel
(D) to make them selves look big

(5) what are some of the ways bullies are bulling people?
(A) at school/face to face
(B) text message
(C) phone calls
(D) letters

(6) dose the size of the bully matter and why?

(7) have you had a bulling experience and what was it?

(8) do you sometimes think there is no help put there and why?

(9) how have you delt with bullies?

(10) if you have been bullied and/are being bullied what would you say to them if you could tell them how you feel and why??

thank you if you have took time out to do this servay for me and im sure it will help me alot
thankyou!

Im currently studying youth protic
and i was hopeing some of yu guys can help me out with this simple servay..

(1) when dealing with bulling at school who do you most feel comfortibal talking about it to
(A)friends
(B)teachers
(C) the bullies them selves
(D) parents
(E) dont feel like you can talk to anyone at all

*It used to be E, but then i found it kind of okay to talk to my boyfriend, so i guess that comes under friends.

(2) have you bullied someone or have been bullied at you work/school
(A) yes i have been bullied
(B) no never been bullied
(C) yes i have bullied some one
(D) Never bullied anyone

*I was bullied rotten when i used to be at High school. It was a horrible time for me.

(3) what do bullies most bullie people about
(A) size
(B) looks
(C) things you might like doing
(D) people you hang around

*It was my looks and the things i liked doing. I got bullied cos i used to write all the time and read.

(4) why do you think bullies bully people?
(A) they have been bullied them selves
(B) jelousy
(C) because their friends are doing it aswel
(D) to make them selves look big

*Mostly jealousy i think and to make themselved look good or 'hard' as they say. But it could be all of the above.

(5) what are some of the ways bullies are bulling people?
(A) at school/face to face
(B) text message
(C) phone calls
(D) letters

*All of the above i find. maybe not the last one as much though.

(6) dose the size of the bully matter and why?

*No. I found that some of the girls were the same size as me (and i'm quite small). As long as they have back-up, they don't care.

(7) have you had a bulling experience and what was it?

*All through High school, i was bullied. It was mostly taunts and name calling. Then it moved on to taking my things and spreading rumours about me. Only a few times did it get physical. But it still hurt.

(8) do you sometimes think there is no help put there and why?

*I used to feel so alone with it. I never had the guts to tell anyone cos i blamed myself for it. But i know now, there is help out there, you just have to reach out for it.

(9) how have you delt with bullies?

*I found ignoring them did nothing. It just made them determined to carry on. In some cases standing up to them can work for people, but i found the only was i could deal with it was seclude myself away from them out of lessons and keep myself to myself until i moved to college and away from them.

(10) if you have been bullied and/are being bullied what would you say to them if you could tell them how you feel and why??

*I'd tell them (and have told them since) that they were pathetic and that jealously gets you nowhere. I also told them to have a look at me now, happily enagaged, doing well for myself in college and out of college and moving in with my fiance in a few weeks time. And where are they? No educational results, a dead end job and a crap love life.
Karma works in funny ways.

thank you if you have took time out to do this servay for me and im sure it will help me alot
thankyou!

*No problem =)

Thank you so much for opening up to me it will help heaps i hope you understand that you are a much better person then they will ever be

i hope you and you guy stay forever

thanks heaps again

You're too sweet =)

I hope your survey goes great. We need more stuff like this =)

*Gem*

Here you go if you want me to do it to....
nessa

(1) when dealing with bulling at school who do you most feel comfortibal talking about it to
(A)friends
(B)teachers
(C) the bullies them selves
(D) parents
(E) dont feel like you can talk to anyone at all

well to be honest i was the bully for a long time but when i was being bullied i would talk to no one, i kept it to my self till now and now i will come ri9ght out and tell you(anyone)

(2) have you bullied someone or have been bullied at you work/school
(A) yes i have been bullied
(B) no never been bullied
(C) yes i have bullied some one
(D) Never bullied anyone

like above i was the bully for prolly two years, when life got hard for me to handle i took it out on all the wrong poeple

(3) what do bullies most bullie people about
(A) size
(B) looks
(C) things you might like doing
(D) people you hang around

in my area and at my school alot of the bullying goes on because of drugs who does them and who doesnt,(i dont anymore) and size has alot to do witth the bullies around here

(4) why do you think bullies bully people?
(A) they have been bullied them selves
(B) jelousy
(C) because their friends are doing it aswel
(D) to make them selves look big

i did it when things got hard for me, when i could no longer cope o took that out on the "weaker" ones the one that would take it. and i had been pushed around myself, no excuses but yea thats how i was

(5) what are some of the ways bullies are bulling people?
(A) at school/face to face
(B) text message
(C) phone calls
(D) letters

texts around here and face to face, we get alot of physical bullying around here

(6) dose the size of the bully matter and why?

yes and no. to some it does, to some they wont stand up if there bigger and some will

(7) have you had a bulling experience and what was it?

i was the bullie i used to write bad leeters and i used to get physical with them, then me being the one bullied i was accually jumped. 3 girls all bigger than me, all because i quit using drugs

(8) do you sometimes think there is no help put there and why?

no there is always help, you just have to look for it and not be afraid to say you need it,

(9) how have you delt with bullies?

i stand up to them now, before i used to coward away and do whatever it took to get out of the way of them

(10) if you have been bullied and/are being bullied what would you say to them if you could tell them how you feel and why??

i do stand up. i tell em how it is and i tell em i am not afraid

thanks for posting this its really cool to get to open up to some one
nessa

Boring?
Then why take the time to post?
And bullying is never EVER for a good cause.
How can you say something like that.
I can picture YOU as one y'know.
Boring my as...

(1) when dealing with bulling at school who do you most feel comfortibal talking about it to
(A)friends
(B)teachers
(C) the bullies them selves
(D) parents
(E) dont feel like you can talk to anyone at all

[ A ]

(2) have you bullied someone or have been bullied at you work/school
(A) yes i have been bullied
(B) no never been bullied
(C) yes i have bullied some one
(D) Never bullied anyone

[ B & D ]

(3) what do bullies most bullie people about
(A) size
(B) looks
(C) things you might like doing
(D) people you hang around

[ B I think ]

(4) why do you think bullies bully people?
(A) they have been bullied them selves
(B) jelousy
(C) because their friends are doing it aswel
(D) to make them selves look big

[ D But I actually think they do it to make themselves feel better about themselves. By bullying others it makes them feel in control and they like that feeling ]

(5) what are some of the ways bullies are bulling people?
(A) at school/face to face
(B) text message
(C) phone calls
(D) letters

[ I'm not sure. I think mostly A ]

(6) dose the size of the bully matter and why?

Umn, I think it does partly because if they were big and wanted to, they could do more harm to you physically.

(7) have you had a bulling experience and what was it?

No, I haven't.

(8) do you sometimes think there is no help put there and why?

Umn, yes sometimes people don't try to help very much because they don't want to make it an issue. But most of the time I think teachers/parents/friends or whoever do want to help.

(9) how have you delt with bullies?

Stayed away from them mainly.

(10) if you have been bullied and/are being bullied what would you say to them if you could tell them how you feel and why??

I haven't been bullied so I don't really know how it feels.

(1) when dealing with bulling at school who do you most feel comfortibal talking about it to
(A)friendsxxxxxxxx
(B)teachers
(C) the bullies them selves
(D) parents
(E) dont feel like you can talk to anyone at all

(2) have you bullied someone or have been bullied at you work/school
(A) yes i have been bulliedxxxxxxxjust two weeks ago by a girl
(B) no never been bullied
(C) yes i have bullied some one
(D) Never bullied anyone

(3) what do bullies most bullie people about
(A) size
(B) looks
(C) things you might like doing
(D) people you hang aroundxxxxxxxxxxx

(4) why do you think bullies bully people?
(A) they have been bullied them selves
(B) jelousyxxxx
(C) because their friends are doing it aswel
(D) to make them selves look bigxxxxx

(5) what are some of the ways bullies are bulling people?
(A) at school/face to face
(B) text messagexxxxxthis girl threatened me on msn
(C) phone calls
(D) letters

(6) dose the size of the bully matter and why?she threatened me cos she thinks she is something and she isn't

(7) have you had a bulling experience and what was it?yes,just 2 sweeks ago a threaten i got

(8) do you sometimes think there is no help put there and why?yes,cos when somebody thinks they're big or something,nothing helps it to make him/her understand she/he is an absolutely nothing

(9) how have you delt with bullies?---------

(10) if you have been bullied and/are being bullied what would you say to them if you could tell them how you feel and why?? I would grab her shirt and hit her by the wall and looking to her eyes in front of people saying 'YoU're nothing,an absoutely nothing'

1) when dealing with bulling at school who do you most feel comfortibal talking about it to
(A)friends
(B)teachers
(X) the bullies them selves
(D) parents
(E) dont feel like you can talk to anyone at all

(2) have you bullied someone or have been bullied at you work/school
(X) yes i have been bullied
(B) no never been bullied
(X) yes i have bullied some one
(D) Never bullied anyone

(3) what do bullies most bullie people about
(X) size
(X) looks
(C) things you might like doing
(X) people you hang around

(4) why do you think bullies bully people?
(X) they have been bullied them selves
(B) jelousy
(C) because their friends are doing it aswel
(X) to make them selves look big

(5) what are some of the ways bullies are bullying people?
(X) at school/face to face
(X) text message
(X) phone calls
(D) letters

(6) dose the size of the bully matter and why?

Not really, a bully is a bully and they come in all shapes, sizes and sexes

(7) Have you had a bullying experience and what was it?

I was picked on throughout school, I dont think anyone really excapes it, either for trying to be different or for who I chose to hang out with.

(8) do you sometimes think there is no help put there and why?

I never felt like there was no help I always knew if no one else I could go to my family.

(9) how have you delt with bullies?

I stand up for myself, that is all you really can do, sometimes words were enough and other times I had to fight to defend myself.

(10) if you have been bullied and/are being bullied what would you say to them if you could tell them how you feel and why??

As a general rule there is nothing logical to say to them, they would just laugh it off, but a good life lesson is to never treat anyone anyway you would not like to be treated because life will come back and bite you in the ass.

(1) when dealing with bulling at school who do you most feel comfortibal talking about it to
(X)friends
(B)teachers
(C) the bullies them selves
(D) parents
(E) dont feel like you can talk to anyone at all

(2) have you bullied someone or have been bullied at you work/school
(X) yes i have been bullied
(B) no never been bullied
(X) yes i have bullied some one
(D) Never bullied anyone

(3) what do bullies most bullie people about
(X) size
(X) looks
(X) things you might like doing
(X) people you hang around

(4) why do you think bullies bully people?
(A) they have been bullied them selves
(X) jelousy
(X) because their friends are doing it aswel
(X) to make them selves look big

(5) what are some of the ways bullies are bulling people?
(X) at school/face to face
(B) text message
(X) phone calls
(D) letters

(6) dose the size of the bully matter and why?
Nope, all they have to do is hurt your feelings, it doesn't matter how big or small they are.

(7) have you had a bulling experience and what was it?
Yes, I was once bullied because I had straight A's.

(8) do you sometimes think there is no help put there and why?
No. I have many people who are there for me. If I need them, I talk.

(9) how have you delt with bullies?
Either Ignore them, or ag them on. Depending on who they are...

(10) if you have been bullied and/are being bullied what would you say to them if you could tell them how you feel and why??
I'd tell them to shove it, because that's how I feel!
But, I wouldn't suggest that, I mean.. they are bullies. :|

Thank you so much guys apart from the person that thinks this is boring, you may not no about it but its helping me so much i have taken some/all of the servays i have recived to my tafe and already they are lookng at a few schools round aus trying to figure away of stopping this and by guys like you who are willing to open up its making it so much easier thnk you all again
x x x

Emily, ignore that person, it sounds like she/he is a bully themselves. Bullying should never be done and there is never a 'good cause' for doing it, as they said.
I think it's a great idea your helping to raise awareness.
*Gem*

Im currently studying youth protic
and i was hopeing some of yu guys can help me out with this simple servay..

(1) when dealing with bulling at school who do you most feel comfortibal talking about it to
(e

(2) have you bullied someone or have been bullied at you work/school
C

(3) what do bullies most bullie people about
(d

(4) why do you think bullies bully people?
(A) they have been bullied them selves

(5) what are some of the ways bullies are bulling people?
(A) at school/face to face

(6) dose the size of the bully matter and why?
Yes because if they are bigger you now that you are going to need help beating them up./
(7) have you had a bulling experience and what was it?
no
(8) do you sometimes think there is no help put there and why?yeah because the teachers never do anything about it.

(9) how have you delt with bullies? NO

(10) if you have been bullied and/are being bullied what would you say to them if you could tell them how you feel and why??
F----- off.

thank you if you have took time out to do this servay for me and im sure it will help me alot
thankyou!

It's all good :]

(1)
(E) dont feel like you can talk to anyone at all

(2) have you bullied someone or have been bullied at you work/school
(A) yes i have been bullied

(3) what do bullies most bullie people about
(B) looks

(4) why do you think bullies bully people?
(D) to make them selves look big

(5) what are some of the ways bullies are bulling people?
(A) at school/face to face

(6) dose the size of the bully matter and why?
No, not really.

(7) have you had a bulling experience and what was it?
Yes.
Someone made fun of me because i wore a headband
And because I was a tomboy when I was younger.

(8) do you sometimes think there is no help put there and why?
Uhmm...what?

(9) how have you delt with bullies?
I fought them or ignored them.

(10) if you have been bullied and/are being bullied what would you say to them if you could tell them how you feel and why??
No
It'd be too sissy.

1) when dealing with bulling at school who do you most feel comfortibal talking about it to
(A)friends

(2) have you bullied someone or have been bullied at you work/school
(A) yes i have been bullied
(C) yes i have bullied some one

(3) what do bullies most bullie people about

(B) looks
(D) people you hang around

(4) why do you think bullies bully people?

(C) because their friends are doing it aswel

(5) what are some of the ways bullies are bulling people?
(A) at school/face to face

(6) dose the size of the bully matter and why?
No, while some may be intimidated more by a large bully, smaller people can be as well.

(7) have you had a bulling experience and what was it?
Yes, for several weeks after I told a boy I liked him, three kids constantly annoyed me about it and made fun of me.

(8) do you sometimes think there is no help put there and why?
No, you can always talk to a friend or counselour.

(9) how have you delt with bullies?
I told one girl, "no" when she told me to do something, and she stopped after I stood up to her.

(10) if you have been bullied and/are being bullied what would you say to them if you could tell them how you feel and why??

I would ask them how they would feel if it happened to them too.

Im currently studying youth protic
and i was hopeing some of yu guys can help me out with this simple servay..

(1) when dealing with bulling at school who do you most feel comfortibal talking about it to
(A)friends

(2) have you bullied someone or have been bullied at you work/school
(B) no never been bullied
(D) Never bullied anyone

(3) what do bullies most bullie people about
(A) size
(B) looks
(C) things you might like doing
(D) people you hang around

(4) why do you think bullies bully people?
(A) they have been bullied them selves

(5) what are some of the ways bullies are bulling people?
(A) at school/face to face
(B) text message
(C) phone calls

(6) dose the size of the bully matter and why?
i think in a way, because more people would be afraid of a bigger bully bc he might be tougher, than a smaller one

(7) have you had a bulling experience and what was it?
nope never

(8) do you sometimes think there is no help put there and why?
you can talk to people about ut

(9) how have you delt with bullies?
N/A

(10) if you have been bullied and/are being bullied what would you say to them if you could tell them how you feel and why??
I would tell them to stop it bc theyre hurting my feelings... and i would ask how they would feel (like the person above me said haha)