He breaks my heart everyday...

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Erm hi. Most people know how you feel. And its okay to be feeling that. Dn be sarcastic or mean to him, just be nice and be careful what you say to him. But don't flirt. If you do that, he'll get attracted to you again for allt he reasons he was before. (well thats my logic anyway) Not making any promises. Be just try to get close to him again but don't be to pushy about it okay. I wish you luck hunny.

Lots of love

Amanda

I'd say give him a little space, let him know that your willing to give him time and that you want to make things work. I doubt the pain will go away if things carry on the way they are, it sounds to me like he is hurting and is acting this way as a defense mechanism.

As for wanting things back to the way they were, it very rarely happens that way, once things change its extremely hard to get it back to how it was. It is possible though i think, you just have to be prepared for putting in a lot of time and effort to prove to him that he can trust you again.

I hope things work out for you hun.

Take care,
Leanne x

^Damn right you deserve it woman.

One question...was your mistake cheating on him?

^ yeh, if it was then its gunna take tym for him to trust you again. So give him a bit of space. BE patient.

x

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Well it happens to everone believe it or not.... I suggest telling him how you feel still. He could think that you dont like him anymore. And... if that doesnt work... leave him a lone for awhile, thats what i did with my gf and she was doing the same thing as him. And it worked. So try that...

But you might have to get over him.... if he is being a jerk he is not worth your time

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When someone hurts you it's natural to not allow yourself to get close to that person again. When you told him that you wanted to move on who knows how he felt... To me it sounds like your telling him that you wanted to move on hurt him enough that he doesn't want to let himself get close to you. By putting you down he's keeping you away and saving himself from being hurt again, and if that's the case I'm not sure I can blame him (I don't agree with how he's doing it, but I can see why he would want to keep his distance).

Who knows, maybe this is how he really feels and in that case you should be glad you got out of the relationship. On the other hand maybe he cried himself to sleep countless nights after you broke up with him and decided that he never wanted to go through it again.

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Well I can honestly say that I know how you feel. I'm in that situation right now and it sucks yeah. The best way I have found to take care of it is spend time with your girlfriends, Write poetry, draw, and listen to a lot of music. Eventually you will stop caring and it will no longer hurt when you talk to him.