Woahhh how did this happen??

Ok my boyfriend kept accusing me of like my best friend in a more then best friend way...which i didn't its just that...i left like a bajillion comments on his myspace sent him a ton of e-mails talked to him on the phone for hours and etc...and didn't with my boyfriend...only because when i called i'd get his voicemai...and i'd leave a message for him to call me back and he wouldn't...i'd send him e-mails and he wouldn't reply and i hardly talk to him in person anymore, and then he accuses me of loving my best friend, so then there was a huge argument that just led into more things we hated about our relationship and now we're apart....

and now... i guess i do realize my feelings for my best friend and if i go out with him my ex will just think h was right all along...i don't know what to do

~brittany (MD)

Oh man... wow. that's why... never... be good friends, close friends, with the opposite sex while you have a bf. i donno exactly what i can advice you with. sorry..

He didn't replied ur mails..n even at phone..no one reciving?..well dan he obiesly wanted to brk up wid u i guess?..

wat u reliez?..u really hav feeling for ur fren?..or wat?..

UR best friend is HIM? instad of her?..

My best friend is actually my ex boyfriend. He is married now and we all get along great.

--Sher

Well.. it does like kind of sussed to him doesn't him.
All he see's is you talking to him all the time, emailing and commenting him 'bazillions' of times.
Sure, he's to blame for not making an effort, but i can't blame him for accusing you of that, to him thats what it looks like,
I have sympathy with you, but i also have it for him
=/
Sweets, talk to him. Make him listen. Don't give him a choice. If he wants to be with you, he should learn to communicate a little.
Also, you should learn to be careful of his feelings as well. By all means don't cut off contact with your best friend, but if it's hurting your boyfriend i think you should cool it a little.
Good luck honey, the lines between love and friends is a small one.
*Gem*

First talk to your current boyfriend about him not replying to emails and you two never talking and whatnot.

Second.. search your heart for what you want... if you and your boyfriend don't communicate.. and you DO have true feelings for your best friend, then date you're best friend if you're certain that it will work out between you two and that's what you truly want... So what if your ex is right?

It's funny though, when a guy talks and flirts with his friends that are girls he thinks it's fine. but when a girl does with their friends that are boys, all of a sudden the boy gets mad and freaks out, it's stupid!

But I agree all the way with Gem on this one, everything she said is exactly how it is ans what you should do.

Lis
bf= leo
best friend = drake ahhhhh you know those 2

Ahhh! not helping lis

1 more added twist... my best friend is also really close friends with my boyfriend

little twisted huh?

Ahhh she who? my best friend is a boy and leo is a boy and im the only she and ahhhh *is confused*

Ok its not like i went out with my best friend while i was dating..we broke up and NOW i have feelings for my best friend, its not like i was flirting with my best friend while i was dating

maybe it was the whole fact that i became attracted to him cuz he gave me the love no one else was giving me...but isn't that why we have best friends..mine just happens to be a guy that i now have a crush on *sighs*

No more opinions i guess ohh well