My boyfriend passed away... i feel so confused

My boyfriend passed away
and im with someone new
but i am so confused inside
i keep wishing that he was back
and mymind plays tricks
i miss him so much
the new bf hurts me so much but its my fault becos i find it hard to trust people now becos i dont want them to leave me

anyone got advice or been through the same thing?xxxxxxx

My situation is kind of similar, but i havent found anyone new yet. i think you just need to give this new guy a chance, no matter how much you loved your old bf and miss him. make the best of what you have, i hope this helps.
xXx

Never had it.

My friend just passed away. he wasn't my boyfriend, but we did date once.. for like three days, eh. didn't work out.
anyway.
you can't change the past, at all.. and, even though it's hard to trust people, when you're ready to, you will.
your boyfriend, if he's hurting you.. well, he shouldn't. sounds like you've been through enough.
so, if it's like.. an everyday thing, or even once or twice a week he's doing it, break up with him.
sounds like you're not totally ready for a relationship..
not if your mind still plays tricks on you..

Recently I lost a brother. We were EXTREMELY close. He was someone who'd been there for me my entire life. It's just one of those things that you never really get over. If you still feel really upset about it and its very fresh in your mind, give yourself more time to accept it. It may take longer than you expected.

I hope everything works out for you.

[tragic]

Omg.. im so sorry... i would die if mine went.. have u told ur new boyfriend? im sure he can comfort you..

I am sorry for your loss. I've never experienced this kind of thing yet, so the best advise to offer is... I guess, what I would do... take the time to find yourself... griev... do what you must... and remember that, as others have said before me... You can't change the past. You don't have to forget it, but you do need to take the time to get past it.

*hugs*... Hope this helps.

Remember the good times between you guys.

Kinda happened to me...he was my best friend, he hated my boyfriend...but life is empty without him

Your boyfriend died.. how sad... my best friend died and I was closer to him than anybody could possibly imagine. My advice is that you shouldn't date anybody until your ready and it's obvious that you're not just yet. You should wait a bit longer until it's easier on you then go for it. Good luck!

~Loveless Nights~

Oh darling, I know exactly how you feel I lost somebody that I love very much alot of my poested poetry is dedicated to him because when it happen writing was the only way I could cope. it can be so hard at first and sometimes I know it will feel worse than the day before and some days will feel better, we all lose people we love but that doesnt mean they are gone completely, we hold them in our hearts and in our minds and that is something that not even death can take away from you. If your not ready to date then maybe you should wait a while, but dont punish yourself. xxx