Relationship advice!!!!!!(help ladies)

  • Verdada
    17 years ago

    Okay my boyfriend is my bestfriend but its like he down talks me guess you can say he's very very opinionated in the worst way! like when I say something funny or mispronounce something he makes me feel stupid! and I'm the type of person who likes to have fun I'm smart and makes good grades but I like to enjoy life at the same time you feel? so when I say something stupid I laugh at myself thats me. He's totally not like that!

  • Tony E
    17 years ago

    If he's making you feel stupid than you should really talk to him. It's very possible that he doesn't realize how much what he says is hurting you, and never meant it in the way you thought he did.

  • KemistryKia
    17 years ago

    First you need to think if that is the type of relationship you can bear...
    think if you have the patience for that type of person
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    now you can't change a person so you want to think about the direction of your relationship
    and when its on your mind too long you may break up
    so basically, i think you should think about you guys differences and see if you look past it

  • Finalgravedigger
    17 years ago

    Hey just tell him it bothers you and if he truly cares he'll stop but you might wanna give him a little more time. and does he say it meanly or does he try to do it out of fun.

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    17 years ago

    Every relationship has their differences like this one...but if he's getting to you Hun, you need to talk to him and let him know. Otherwise, he will just keep going with his jokes and you will continue to get hurt by them; and who wants that?

    You don't deserve to be cut down and made out to be stupid...so if you want change, you have to let him know what he is doing and ask him to cut back on what he's doing.

    =)

  • Impulse
    17 years ago

    ^ Bingo =)

  • BeautifulxMess
    17 years ago

    Talk to him. Let him know that he needs to stop being such a stiff rock and loosen up a bit. Fun may not be in his vocabulary. I would not approve if my boyfriend was liek that. He ONLY gets like that when he's pissed off. But when he's happy or whatever he jokes ALL the time, sometimes his stupidity shows more than mine does. But you know, really talk to this guy. He sounds like someone who needs to wake up and smell the dad gum roses for once! Ugh I can't stand when guys are like that. It bugs me. Lol. <3Tayy

  • Stephanie
    17 years ago

    Talk to him. Tell him how you feel and that you don't like the way he makes you feel when he makes fun of you. If he loves you he should be understanding and stop.

  • Laurie Tran
    17 years ago

    My best friend acts exactly like this.
    it pisses me off.
    my own personal method is getting mad at him.
    i doubt it'll work for you though .
    i use a lot of sarcasm on him and it confuses him, making him feel bad about himself =]

    but honestly, if he's your boyfriend, he should care for you and if you talked to him about it, it'll most likely help.

    goodluck =]

  • Han84
    17 years ago

    My old best friend used to do tt to me too.. i always laughed at myself but he did laugh but also if i sadi something and i kinda got it wrong or something he wood go into one and end up lecturing me..

    im v v v v vsarcastic and he wood always say sarcasim is the lowest form of witt.. so wot if it is but it make me and ppl laugh..

    anyway it jus way he is an he might not realise he is doing it so maybe spk to him bout it xhx

  • The Angel of Secrets
    17 years ago

    I agree with the others