Do u listen to him or them?

  • Nicole
    17 years ago

    Who do you listen to when its friends against someone you love? me and the guy i love broke up and he's already found interest in a friend of mine and they get on great and they now wanna be together and they do everything by me not wantin things to get weird or anymore painful but my other friends keep sayin that he played me and that i can do better than him and that i should walk away before i get hurt any worse. who should i be listening to?

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    When it came down to friends and the one i loved, i would always take the side of the one i loved.
    But in this case, your friend is right, if he would go out with a friend right away, he's scum
    As for the 'friend'. Between two friends there is an upspoken rule, "Never go out with a friends ex, especially if she still likes him, unless permission has been granted"
    She seems to be rubbing it into your face at the moment, have a word with her and spend some time with your other friend who seems to have her head on her shoulders.
    *Gem*

  • NuovoVesuvio
    17 years ago

    The fool must cross a very thin log across a river. She is given a car and a motorcycle. The fool will puzzle for hours over which she should use, when she could've walked to begin with.

  • in LoVe
    17 years ago

    I say listen to your friends. I have just made a mistake with not listening to my friends. Especially if more than one friend saying the same thing. And if he's going with your friend, than thats just low...as hard as it is..try and move on.

  • Karl Wild GG23
    17 years ago

    Theres like a unwritten rule that you don't go after your friends ex's no matter what. It just causes so much drama for everybody, this is not going to end good.

  • Quiet Storm
    17 years ago

    He played you and your friend should be ashamed of herself. What friend would date their friends boyfriend. That's not a true friendship, and he sure didn't care enough about your feeling if he's messing with her. You should move on, and get a new friend to replace her, because their not worth anything your going threw

  • Stephanie
    17 years ago

    I wouldn't believe any of them. You should look deep down and say what do I think. Look into your own heart and past and think about what you think is best. I know what your going through because I'm going through the same thing right now. I just found it easier to sit back and think for myself.