He keeps brining the past... n the fire is becoming dim

The guy i love has this past... which hurts me becuase it was with another woman. i was his first n as he moved thousands of miles away we decided to become friends yet i disecertly still had some feelings left... but he moved on kind of. so he started talking to this chick, n for some reason i knew they would never end up together even though i never spoke to the girl. he always talked of her to me, n how he loved her... i would be crushed within while hearing his good times n bad time with this girl, but i was just there to listen as a friend thinking maybe 1day he will love me back.

n so it happend... he fell back in love with me becuase i hanged on for too long. at 1point when i really felt i couldnt take any of him anymore... his daily stories about that girl n slowly how he started being so rude to me, i decided to leave him for good with a phone all. in this phone call i cried my heart out n was ready to say my good-byes. but at that moment he had already broke up with that girl cuz things were just not going right between him and her. i didnt really care no more n was fed up more than anything. he begged for me to stay n to not leave him. he apologized n i was so vulnerable to him already fell n decided to stay. he promised to treat me right n slowly he was in love with me again.

n now its been like more than 8 months... but every now n then he would mention her. he said he hasnt talked to her in 6 months. but he one day on her birthday adds her and talks to her. currently they have started talking. but i hate the feeling of them talking. n i hate that girl with a passion but cuz of her he was pulled away from me. i told him before that i dont like the fact he still talks to her once in a while, i want him to stop completely. he said he just wants to make sure she is safe n that she's ok.
i told him several times, n at 1point he said ok i wont talk to her but if she talks to me ill talk back.
now he said that he wont talk to her anymore cuz first she is a bit jealous how im with him, n second they both agree not to talk cuz its part of the past. now all of this makes me more angry cuz y do they need to discuss this? n y is it cuz i told him a dozen times its not from his heart.
n now i told him that i feel uncomfortable with u, n that i feel somewhat distant from u... a bit uneasy to be ur lover. n that hurt him he thinks i dont love him no more.

i forgave him for his past but he continued to bring it back n now my feelings r changing.

u think wa he's doing is right or wa? or should i still talk to him or move on. i told him he should move on with me now cuz i dont care anymore if he talks to her or not.
also some guy friends in my past that somewhat liked me tried hitting on me n that got him mad once n i stopped, but he still continues... but now he says he never will talk to her again. but i hate this feeling now!!!!
i kinda hate him now too...

Ok so this is what i would do. long distance relationships never work out in my opinion. and from what ur saying its not working out. i know u might love him and all but seriously if ur always pissed that hes talking to her and it hurts u...and even though u tell him he continues to do it....then he obviously isnt being sensative to ur feelings. hes doing what he wants. and maybe he cant let either one of u girls go. who knows...but really u need to move on and find a different guy. if u and this far away guy are meant to be together then its going to happen. but now its just not working out for u guys and thats very easy to see. im sorry its not working out for u and i hope this helped.

Ahh i just have to think bout all this crap... i hate these girls who come in the way.

But u need to think about it. its not just girls coming in the way.
its the distance.