Using it against me... even when i wouldn't do it back

My ex and i are trying to work out things so we can get back together. we were going out for a year and a month. we were going through so much that i just couldn\'t take it. but now i want him back and he wants to be with me but yet were still not together. we fool around still and still go out and everything but yet were still not together. and when we fight, he\'s always bring up the one thing that he uses against me.. that i danced up on some guy he didn\'t like at a party. i have never cheated on him, never thought of it, and always tried to love him the way he deserved. he uses it against me all the time when were fighting or even just out of nowhere and he knows how it gets to me and he keeps using it against me. hes cheated before more than once, made me cry, flirted in front of me and thought nothing of it, and i always found out stuff i didn\'t want to. but the thing is i never brought up any of that stuff to use against him. i never wanted to remind him. do you think its fair what he\'s doing? ive talked to him about it but he didn\'t really say or do anything. and he still does it. what should i do about it? it hurts me every time he does it. what should i do?

Ummm u need to lose the douchbag and find a better guy..
he cheated on. flirts with girls in front of u. prolly forgetting ur there?
no one deserves a girl/boy like that. u need to find someone who respects u and cares about the way u feel.
this guy obviously has no regret about his mistakes if he continues to make them.

Honey, I'm sorry but it seems that he is using you. If you're just fooling around and still not going out, than it seems all he wants is just to fool around with no strings attatched.

If he is hurting you like that than why are you with him, he's always bringing up your faults but he's blinded by his own...you talked to him about it and he still persisted on doing it, so he isn't going to quit. You deserve better, and don't settle for less than you deserve Sweetie.

^^^ Exactly doesn't sound like a very nice guy to me.