Ashley
17 years ago
Me and this guy have been datin for a couple weeks now...and i have like him for a month to say.....after 4 days of datin he told me he loved me and he JUST got out of this relationship a week before we started dating....i dont know if he is still sprung on his ex..they were together for a year and 5months....but he says she means nothing to him...i cant even talk to him about it i get get so nervous...what do i do? what do i say? HELP!!!! |
i love you
17 years ago
Wow. after 4 days of dating he loves u....? honestly that would creep me out a bit. my boyfriend told me about 2 months after we were dating...and that wasnt even long enough....yea were still together but you should never move that fast...like we did. |
CaRpEDiEm
17 years ago
Do you love him??it is important..and i think he told his love very early.because it is not very easy to tell your love to someone.it needs a long time,too.i would say that he is maybe stuck with his ex.coz boys cant get rid of thinking of them easily.those are my opinions.and if he doesnt give you any importance then why are you worried about him?never mind!!!i m sorry if these are too heavy comments.i would like to help you.take care..hugs.dont be sad!ok? |
HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
17 years ago
He said he loves you after four days, you might be a rebound but you might not be. But I have to agree, don't move too fast in this...if you don't feel ready to say it back, than don't. But you will never truly be able to focus until you know what's going on in his mind, so you have to talk to him. Just sit him down and tell him you don't want to hurt him but you need to know and than ask him. |
Karl Wild GG23
17 years ago
It takes months to love somebody truly, maybe even a bit longer. I hate to say this but he might just be using you to keep his mind off what he doesn't want to think about, his ex. You should tell hom to slow down and think about what he really wants, because if he keeps moving at this pace, it won't end good for either of you. |
BeautifulxMess
17 years ago
I agree with Karl. It's probably just..."in like" as me and my friends like to call it. I could be pretty much impossible for him to love you, me and my boiyfriend didn't start even joking about saying I love you to each other til after 2 months of dating. ((Like when we'd say something stupid or perverted and you'd say "what did you say" you'd say like..uh..I love yOu?))like that. But we didn't mean it until like 4 months. I'm not saying it takes that long but it should take at least over a month before ya'll should say that. My advice to you is that tell him how you feel it. Plus yeah he could be just trying to get his mind off his ex, 1 year relationships are hard to let go of. Trust me, I've seen it happen. |