Is it just me?

Is it just me, or does everyone else notice that once most girls get into a relationship they always say that they love them. And they break up a few days later but they act like it's the end of the world. I kinda think that's unnessacery. What do you think? Do you think people need to get over 3 day or 2 week relationships? Cause it gets annoying at my school. "OMG..it's soo sad! We had such an awesome thing blah blah!" grr make it stop. (not litteraly i know it can't be stoped))

I kinda notice that too, its not all girls just mostly the over dramatic ones who get attached too easily. But a two week relationship can be hard to get over if it was with someone who you've known for along time and really liked. I guess it just depends on the people.

I agrree.but lets not forget that when you truely love someone...theres not age,time,limit to stop,start or forget...it all depends...=)

Well, it's VERY rare for you to be IN LOVE like..REAL love after only 2 weeks or 3 days don't you think?

Honesty....it depends...but sometimes love can be miss taken for passion...what we in my country call "a pink cloud"...

But of course in weeks I believe so...in days its impossible...

I disagree...like I said before in days its not love that they feel...its probaly just a crush or a passion for someone...but maybe not in general...but I think its not pointless not saying "iI LOVE you" in a short time of a relationship (like in some weeks together or months) it depends on how the relationship is going and how much time both spend together.And I think it that age can make a diferents in how you say it and how long it takes you to feel it...Cus in the end...when you are young you are "new" in this world of feelings and love...but I believe when you are use to things and situations you know your self better and you understand more your feelings in order to share them or to say them....

but its just my opinion...

take care

Yup totally agree....i mean if it was with someone with like a year or mayb a lil less but i guess they were like obessed with the person...or have this HUGE crush on tht person....and i think tht ppl need to get over the 3 days to 2 week relation ships....suck it up ppl!

Teenagers tend to get lost in their emotions. I never got lost in love that way though. I remember I started going out with this guy and I guess trying to be "romantic" he said he loved me, we had been going out only a few hours lol I looked at him like he was crazy and he said "what dont you love me?" I said "ah no, we just started dating, that's a little unrealistic" lmao Needless to say it did not last too long. When you are just learning and feeling new emotions, it can be hard to differentiate between them and we just start mislabelling what it is we feel. It is not just girls that do it though.

My point exactly. I'm getting sick of girls that are just so dramatic over a relationship with someone who was just a little dating thing. And they cry and wine and it's like SHUT UP! Lol.

Ha i know a guy who was like that. haha. he told me he wanted a real relationship with me. and literally two days later was with a different girl and had already told her he loved her and wanted to spend the rest of his life together. hahahaha pathetic!

but yes ive noticed many girls like that. and also girls who have dated more than 2 guys within a week. and crushed by each break up. that happens a lot at my school too. lol

I think it's pathetic you don't really 'know' someone in a few days or weeks. In that time your just blinded by what you think they are. True love is so very rare and only happens (I believe) once in a lifetime. I've known both guys and girls like that and they drive me crazy.

Hehehe Ok I have to say that I understand those people who cry and are hurt after breaking up from a relationship that may have only lasted a week or two ^.^ I've known my boyfriend for a month and this monday was our 2 week anniversary =) and we told each other that we loved each other 1 week ago on our anniversary =) I've never moved this fast and I NEVER take those 3 words lightly AT ALL =P There are only 2 other people that know me as well as he does already and I already would trust him with my life ^.^
I'll let each of you think whatever you want but I know that you can fall in love after only knowing a person for a short while and that it can work out because I'd do anything to keep him in my life for as long as I can and he says that he feels the same =)
***Rhea***

=) take care sandy

point understood

Well, you may THINk but how do you KNOW. I known my boyfriend 6 months before we started dating. You may have known him for a month, but it takes more than a month for Love to happen. Sorry, but mostly in that case only after 1 week of dating it's just a "in Like". It can't really be love. Pretty much impossible. But best wishes for ya'll. Just don't push the relationship, it does ruin it. Saying I love you too soon is relationship suicide.

Thats why kids shouldn't date until atleast grade 9 - 10 of high school at the earliest. I mean we have all these 13 year olds running around in love after 3 days of a relationship. At such a young age you have no understanding whatsoever of what love means, you can't even fathem how much further love goes then holding hands while walking down the halls. So many teens get there hearts broken because they always think there in love. To be completely honest 90% of teens who say there in love or have been, don't even know what love is because they haven't got to experience it yet. Thats where all this "Love at First sight" comes into play, there is no such thing as love at first sight children, get it through your heads. Even if you date a guy for 3 years and then love him, it doesn't mean you loved him at first sight. And teenagers wonder why they get there hearts broken so easily and then struggle to find themselves.

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