Monica AKA Mika
17 years ago
It depends on how long they were going out, if your friend still has feelings for him and if you still want to have her as your best friend because you never know she could stop talkin to you all together! I say back off too, unless you like him enough to lose your friend but remember that friends will always be there and guys may not! |
HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
17 years ago
Uhh, as angsty as I am to my friends in these terms since they don't give a care about doing that with my exes, I talk to them if I do like the guy and ask them if it would be okay...but ask them in person not over the phone or IM or notes or any of that, because often a friend will lie and say that it is okay and than they get really upset seeing you two together. |
.K.i.T.t.Y.
17 years ago
All I've got to say about that is TALK TO YOUR FRIEND ABOUT THIS. See how she's doing with it. But maybe give it time. Admitting you do right away may bother her. |
BrokenREALiTy
17 years ago
Well for me, it would depend how long they went out; how deep the relationship was y`know ? But I would definitely let her know before doing anything . You never want to do something before talking with you`r BEST friend . Seriously . It`ll just scrwe everything up . Give it a little time -- If she says she`s totally okay with it, ask her again for reassurance . You never know what they could be thinking . |
Lauren Waszkiewicz
17 years ago
I dated my friends ex.. then she dated him again.. then my other friend dated him.. we just passed him around. he was a good guy and deserved the right person.. but it wasnt any of us.. lol |