He abandoned me

  • Quiet Storm
    17 years ago

    I had tried to run away to my boyfriend in New Jersey around New Years Eve, and i haven't heard from him since. The airport wouldn't sell me a ticket because i was still a minor. The bad part was that i had stole $700 from my mother to get there, and when he found out the cops got involved, he just forgot about me. He didn't call, nothing. He has called me once after that and told me a whole bunch of lies. i keep telling myself i don't love him anymore, but i know i do. But it's like i'm also hurting when i'm with him. Should i let him go, or should i try to save what i have?

  • Lauren
    17 years ago

    I agree. If he lied to you, hurt you and ignores you then he obviously isn't worth the trouble. Concentrate on the things that matter right now like school and your friends and if you want a boyfriend then I suggest you find one who won't turn you into something your not and who loves you in return

  • Spidergirl Jess
    17 years ago

    I'd say you're bound to find someone better for you later on in life.
    you may think you love him now but you really most likely dont.
    and if you do, think of how hes been treating you.
    his sweetness and niceness and being around him shouldnt make up for it.

  • Kayla
    17 years ago

    You shouldn't be with this guy. He doesn't really seem like he cares about your feelings and you don't deserve that from anybody. He LIED to you, everybody deserves honestly from their loved ones. I know you love this guy, but you shouldn't be with him for your own sake. And yes, you're only 14!! You should be focused on school, not this guy who can't even tell you the simple truth. Your boyfriend isn't worth all the trouble you have to go through for him. You should be concentrating on your friends, family, and school work. You need to be concentrating on the things that matter now and that'll help you out in the future. Good luck!!

    ~Loveless Nights~

  • Kristina
    17 years ago

    Wow he sounds like a real @$$hole to me! especially if you were gonna run away to see HIM and he acts like that to you. wow, you DONT need him!