I need some help...

  • KatRoyalty
    17 years ago

    Ok I have a boyfriend...but the relationship is long distance...and I think im falling in love with another guy and I dont know how to deal with it.And When I talk to this guy I feel very happy and I feel like I have butterflies in my stomach.But sometimes I feel like that when I talk to my boyfriend.And now Im going crazy because I dont know what to do....so What should I do about it?

  • .K.i.T.t.Y.
    17 years ago

    How far is the boyfriend?
    How often to do you talk to him?
    How often do you see him?
    Which creates a greater feeling?
    How long have you known the bf/guy?
    Who do you trust more?

    I understand what you going though. You'll just need to figure out who is more important to you.

    Best of wishes.

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    Eek . Long distance relationships ... That`s why I never get into them . Look, can you really call it love if you` feel that way for BOTH guys ? Honestly I think you`r just infatuated . Since it`s long distance, you could be missing you`r boyfriend in a way maybe ? I can`t explain it, but having this other guy there that 'gives you butterflies' and 'makes you feel happy' is making you think you`r falling in love with him . But in reality, I don`t think you like either of them . It says you`r 14 ? Come on , sweetie` , I`m not saying you`r too young or not mature enough, cuhs` I been in you`r shoes, but why are you freaking out about this stuff when you got you`r whole life ahead of you ? Really . I don`t think you should be with either one of them, but that`s just how I think .
    ..__MiNDYY