HOW DO I TEL HIM?

HOW DO I TELL HIM THAT HES NOT THE PERSON I FEEL IN LOVE WITH? WHEN WE MET OVER 4 YRS AGO I LOVE THAT PERSON, BUT WHEN WE STARTED TO FOOL AROUND HE STARTED TO CHANGE.. HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM AND I SAID YES AND I WANT TO BUT I DONT THINK HE IS THE GUY I FEEL IN LOVE WITH?

Gosh, I bet you'd figure out your conundrum a lot faster if you didn't type in capitals.

IF HE ASKED YOU TO MARRY HiM, BUT YOU DON`t LOVE HiM, THEN DON`t SAY YES . It`s that simple ! OMG what are you doing to this guy ? You just gave him you`r word to MARRY HiM . OH . MY . GOD . I don`t know you, but I want to SLAP you right now . You are giving him false hope . He asks you to marry him, and you say yes when you don`t even love him ?! You just gave him a lie . One of the biggest lies you can ever tell . And now you have to tell him the truth . The longer you hold out on it, the more it`s going to tear him .
Unbelievable .
..__MiNDYY

1- u dont love him. obviously. 2- ur 17. way to young to get engaged in my opinion. 3- u really need to tell him. u cant stay with the guy just because u already told him yes. u didnt mean it. u need to end it with him asap. u cant put his feelings first in a situation like this cuz ur heart is not there. it wont make u any happier staying with him. u need to do whats best for both of u and thats breaking it off. if u keep this lie going its just going to hurt him more later when he finds out the truth. so end it.
just tell him honestly how u feel. tell him uve thought about it and ur not ready for the commitment of marriage. tell him u love him but ur not IN LOVE with him. those are two completely different things. it will hurt him. but its best u do it now.

Im sorry, but if you are married to someone you do not love at 17, then it is your fault... he obviously liked you enough to propose, if you thought you were doing him a favor by saying yes, then im sorry but you have to be a stupid idiotic ***** how do you think he would feel if you turned him down? or will you just pretend to be in love with him??? you need to tell him that you aren't ready, or aren't in loVe with him. don't lead him on, it will just hurt you both in the end.

Marriage is for life.. not just for a few weeks.

QUESTION: HOW DO I TEL HIM?

ANSWER: You open your big gob and speak.

^its very sarcastic but very very very true

well said

^^ HAHA! That first comments was adorable, I rather enjoyed that haha.

Anyways, I agree with what everyone else is saying...why would you keep leading him on if you don't actually love him? That's just rude...you can't marry someone you don't fricken love!

Well how? same as above ^^ open ur mouth and speak..plain and simple......just let tell him..and u shouldnt marry someone u dont luv..thts just wrong..

How wrong could you seriously be.... you led him on and i bet that guy loves you with his life, and here you are saying yes to him not loving him as much. This poor guy is going to be devastated..... what you did is wrong...

You better tell him soon...

You need to tell him its worser to live with it then not to tell the truth, if you really did love him at one point you will tell him now that he is not the one for you

I think that you shold tell him the truth. Everyone deserves to have someone that loves them they way they love that one person. But I agree that if you did love him at one point then you will tell him and he'll understand.

If he changed that much than maybe u should tell him that he's changed and he isnt the guy u fell in love with and u wont marry him until he changed back into the guy u fell in love with, and if he doesnt than its wrong to marry someone u dont love at all. I dealt with this. My bf asked me to marry him and after i said yes he got really controling and than i was like if u love me than youll change back to the man i fell in love with and he changed. Were still waiting to get married but everything is better. I dont know if this advice will help you but i hope that is does. Youll make the right choice eventually. Just speak from your heart.

Word.