What Should I Do? Please help me, somebody

  • Quiet Storm
    17 years ago

    I know a lot of people say thta since i'm so yound that i don't know what i'm talking about, but i know that i am bi. After being rape more than a few times, i just decided i wanted no parts of a boy/man anymore. So i started dating females. When i told my mother, she went crazy. She kept telling me how i was not bi, and how it was something that you inherit, when i know it's not. It's hard not being able to talk to her about it. What should i do? And the bad thing is the female that i was talking to, just forgot about me, and moved on, when she claimed she had strong feeling for me. I don't know what to do about her, every once in a while she'll call me, but i think she does it just to make me jealous of her new girl, or to make my life a living hell. I just don't know what to do anymore.

  • xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex
    17 years ago

    1. If you're "bi" you like both sexes. If you "decided I wanted no parts of a boy/man anymore" then you, my friend, are gay.

    2. You're mother will grow to accept it with time. If not, than that's her personal choice and you also need to accept that. But, with all time, things get easier to deal with...I promise.

    3. High school relationships/Middle School relationships usually don't last. If she was stupid enough to "forget" all about you, then she wasn't worth your time. Move on and find someone that actually cares for you and isn't using you.

    Hope that helps.

    xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    17 years ago

    Yes, Sheena is right, you are not bi if you want nothing to do with parts of a boy/man anymore.

    And I'd have to agree with her on the relationship part as well, she isn't worth your time if she can just move on and forget about you, so you need to stop thinking about her and do the same that she did to you - move on.

  • The Queen of Spades
    17 years ago

    Yeah, seriously listen to sheena...you just stated everything I was going to.

  • Helen
    17 years ago

    Hmm i agree, i think your mother acted like she did because she was shocked. but dont worrie you should try and move on :) and have fun its what life is for isnt it?

  • Lauren Waszkiewicz
    17 years ago

    Well, actualyl she isnt gay- she could be but she isnt neccesarily.

    she says she doesnt want anything to do with them(guys) that doesnt mean she doesnt have feeling for them.. she just chooses not to follow through with them.

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