---Need Opinionz PLZ---

Ok about 3 weeks ago I had sex wit one of my ex boyfriends and we've known each other for two years and like it was just causual sex. Im now talking to another guy as in to be with him. And him and my ex are good friends. My ex and i decided we shouldn't tell anyone wat we did. But I asked my ex if i was wrong for not tellin the current guy I'm trying to be that me and him had sex.

Do you think I should tell him. Or wait til were officially together and then tell him or WAT???

HELP!!

UPDATE: well he called me and i tikd him wat happened. He was upset that i didnt tell him when it happened. And i understand, but we arent together or close to being together at the time it happened. He was sad to the point where he wanted to cry, i feel as though im wrong. How do i fix it ugh this suck. I didnt regret doin it wit my ex til about 10 mins ago.

HELP!!! AGAIN

Exactly.... tell him to piss off..

nah nah jus jokes... just tell him to get over it.. i mean you two weren't officially together anyway right? If i may say so. but yeah. so don't feel bad.

If you really care about this guy your trying to be with then you really shouldn't keep secrets from him. I know there have been things in my past that I've hidden from my current bf and all it does is get me in trouble with him if he thinks I'm lieing to him. So if it was me I would tell him.

I mean..if he reacted that way then he needs to realize you werent together. I still get upset everytime my g/f mentions having sex with her 2 ex's. But we werent going out nor did i know her so i just put it aside. If he's reacting like that then just let it run it's course. He shouldnt be too mad or upset cause u guys werent going out. but you told him....which is the important thing. you didnt hide anything from him.

Mm. perhaps he likes you too, in which case it would be understandable if he was sad that you had sex with someone else. even if it was "just casual." you say you didn't regret it before, but it seems like you were feeling guilty for something, if you were worried about telling him.

Thanks for the help guys...it worked but we arent goin to be together cuz he doenst know wat he wat as he say he confused....w/e man ima go get with my ex later again haha not but yea thanks guys soo much

much love

Your ex is in the past, even the casual sex 3 months ago. If this guy really likes you he wont be too bothered. Lies always get out, i know!!