What do i do, i get too much attention

I love my mom, i truly do. But, she is not the nicest person i know. She's actually the meanest person i know. My grandmother says it's because she can't get all the attention that i get, and it's not even my fault. How am i supposed to stop guys and females from looking at me. i don't know what to do.

Take the time to sit down and tell her (your mom) how you feel. Talking things out always helps me.

Uhh if she's a good Mother and knows the first thing about parenting she wouldn't be jealous that her DAUGHTER gets more attention than her...she needs to learn to take responsibility for you and do what she's actually supposed to be doing - her best to raise you...and she can't be letting her jealousy get in the way of her doing that.

You will have to sit her down and talk to her about it.

I dont think thats the soulution. to make people stop looking at you. you're young now and young people look at other young people. you're mother needs to understand that this is your time, she had hers. and if more people look at you then her, thats perfectly understandable.

Hahahaha.
Well, at least I know you're gorgeous. :]

Okay, well why don't you try..
Mk. You say your mother is mean? Tell her she's nice!!! Oh, yes.. Lots, lots, lots of compliments. They always help me when my mom is mean.
Just let her know you love her. And, try telling her she's not mean.. Maybe that's the actual problem, she knows she's mean. Therefore, she's unable to believe that her daughter is nice? I doubt she's that way because you're the attention hog, though.. :D Loll.

Why would your mom treat you badly because you're attractive? That's kind of ridiculous. Sit down and have a chat with your mama.

I could do it.
It's not that hard, she's a PARENT..
Talk to her or get over it.
That's your only choice.
Unless of course you just wake up very unattractive.
I doubt that.

YEAH I KNOW SHE'S A PARENT, BUT MY MOM IS ALL ABOUT HER, IT NEVER ABOUT ANYONE ELSE.

MAYBE IF YOU DISCUSSED IT YOU MIGHT BE WRONG AND FIND OUT SHE'S JUST LONELY AND IS USING IT AS A MECHANISM TO COME OFF AS NOT MISERABLE. MAYBE SHE'S DOING IT FOR YOUR OWN GOOD AND DOESN'T WANT YOU TO SEE HER UPSET. OR MAYBE THAT'S COMPLETELY WRONG OR IT'S STILL SOMETHING DIFFERENT AND THE ONLY WAY TO FIND OUT IS NOT JUDGE A SITUATION YOU HAVEN'T DISCUSSED.
gosh.

Uhh life is nothing,

Yes I could do that...I tell my Mom where she goes wrong with parenting me all the time. I'm not going to let her parent me wrong and keep it all inside, if she knows where she's going wrong than she has the chance to improve..I sit down with her and talk at least once a week, it's not that difficult.

If your Mom is all about her, than tell her...telling us on here isn't going to make a change Sweetie, if you want a change, she has to know how and what to change.

Because she can talk to her parents, doesn't mean she is better than you, it means she is STRONGER. If you don't know how to talk to your parents about what is bothering you, than the relationship won't improve. It takes effort from BOTH people..

I know people like that and it annoys the crap out of me.

I agree! Sat your mom down and tell her how you feel. It isn't right for her to be mean to you just because you get attention. You're young!! You're supposed to be getting attention, not your mother!

~Loveless Nights~

She's not alone, my mother has more men than i have toes and feet put together. It's just that now that i'm growing up and she doesn't want to let me. I mean i have a very attractive body, and i'm not trying to brag, but i got it from her side of the family. She's just a jealous person. My grandmother always say that she's always been jealous of me.

If she goes on and off with men, it's more of a probability she is lonely, but let her be jealous. flaunt it for all you care. just tell her to stop being so pathetic and grow up. being jealous of your own daughter? christ.