Hope
19 years ago
It is common and, i guess, part of society for the man to make the first move and ask the girl out. Just like how the man proposes to his girl for marriage. But that doesn't mean girls can't ask guys out. So it depends on the type of guy he is, whether he is shy or not. If he is really shy, chances are slim that he wouldn't make the first move, but if he is not, you could wait. On the other hand, it also depends on how desperate you are and whether this notion of telling him ur feelings is distracting ur way of life. If it is, you should tell him because hey there is one less worry on ur mind, plus no regrets. But before you consider these options, take it slow and get to know him beforehand. Make sure you really like the guy for who he is. If i was you, i would ask him because there is the chance that you could be waiting for an eternity for him to make the first move, which he might never do or worse, some other girl gets him. As someone once said, the 'happiest of ppl don't necessarily have the best of everyhting, they make the most of everyhting that comes along their way'. Up to you. Good luck and take care! :) |