LOVE or LUST?? :(

ya i dont see what the problem is .. 1st off family is above us and ur b atotal bitch to screw ur sisetr over that way .. and 2nd off if tehre maried there obvuoly of age and ur only 14 yrs old which would make taht disgusting not to mention most likely illegal.. itd b all round so worng 4 u to do that and its wrong if u even allow it to cross ur mind .. what u should do is b a good sister and tell her what her husband is doing cause only man who loves his wife wouldnt b after his wifes baby and i do mean baby sister

errr... well, if you end up with your sister's husband... you'll lose your sister for sure... and you're likely to lose that man in the future as well... what's there to say that he wont run after someone else later on??? Think about that... this is one wrong move in life you don't want to make... take care.

do not go off wiv ur sister's husband. dat is one of the worst things u cud possibly do. u will b so h8d throughout ur whole family an ur m8s will all think u r such a bitch dat no1 will eva talk 2 u agen. how can u even consider it. he sounds like such a jerk an u shud definately tell ur sister, she doesn't deserve to be wiv a jerk like that.

well its really really simple u dont wnat to lose ur sister then dont sleep with her husband.Its not taht hard its common sence really .

for sure don't get with him but maybe some one should know! Like tell your mom or i dunno, thats hard, maybe dont tell any one and just push him away!

who cares if hes charming .. use seem to b missing teh part where thats ur sisetrs husband. thats teh lowest thing to put a man b4 ur family not to mention the fact that u r a lil kid and he has to b a adult in order to b married so what hes doign not only wrong but its illegal.U must have no respect 4 urslef and how sad if ur sister has ne kids what a great aunt would steal mess with there dad how very very sad..Only one whos sleazy here is u.

hey im sry if i sound harsh but im like so blown someone woudl do taht to tehre family. I mean i have a ynger sisetr and well actually shes 17 my hus is 20 so theres not even that big of a age gap but ill tell u this idkick her ass till she couldnt see straight if she messed with my husband. But the hting is my sister woudl nevr do taht or even think it and if my hus appraoched her in that manner shed b quick to tell me cause men come and go but u only have one sister were as i oculd find anew man but id nevr forgive her.You just dont do that ud b acting liek a hoe and ur 14 yrs old u have no buisness screwing round wiht a older man neway and much less one taht married to ur sister its just messed up all round..I may have seen u say ur sister has kids or is gonna have some tahst even worse what kinda aunt r u being a real fucked up one.You should have more respect 4 urslef and alot more 4 ur sister and ur family.The right thing to do would b to tell ur sisetr how much of a creep and pervert her husband is. Well i hope u do teh right thing b4 it caost u ur family and u brk ur sisters heart and are labeled a slut.

Oh Nahla, what a horrible predicament to be in. Flag what the above person stated, being 14 years old has nothing to do with it. Although i believe what they say "blood is thicker than water" if this guy is after you, then he's obviously not worth you're time, or your sisters time. And as for being labeled a "sl*t" because you're Sisters husband is after you is completley rediculos, that has absolutley nothing to with the question you asked...so my dear friend, i think the wisest thing to do would be let it go. As hard as it may be. I truely think it's most likely lust. So just ask yourself is it worth losing a sister for something you are not sure about. (you are far from sleezy Nahla, look at it positively, at least you can spell half pi reasonably)

Take care always my friend,
Kalah

Look you dont want a guy that is married and wanting to cheat on his wife. If he wants you, and gets you what makes you think he wont cheat on you? Plus that is your sister, family comes first and if you just through that all the way for some stupid guy then your really fucked up! It might be hard cause maybe you have feelings for him, but some times feelings should just be put to the side. Just think about whom you would be hurting. Is it really worth it?

dont do it..surely your sister is more important

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