What do you do when your life is crumbling?

Lately nothing has seemed right. I found out i'm going deaf and i belive i'm going crazey. I've started have very frequent dejavu. I also have been having relationship problems. What do i do?

OKAY...YOU NEED TO STOP BEING SO NEGATIVE YOU HAVE TO LOOK @ THINGS IN A POSITIVE WAY. I MEAN THEIR CANT BE JUST BAD THINGS IN YOUR LIFE. IT MIGHT SEEM LIKE THAT COZ YOUR LOOKING FOR THE NEGATIVE NOT THE POSITIVE. DONT WORRY THINGS WILL END UP GOOD.JUST BELIEVE.

Well...maybe we could put that in a nicer way shall we?

I agree. You need to let your feelings out in some way. Perhaps it might help to talk a friend who you really trust and I'm sure they'll give you a shoulder to cry on. Hope things turn out for the best
xx

Thanks for all the help i'm starting to understand but the more i think i've got it figured out the more confused i get. But with all the stress latelly i'm not suprised.

Thanks i know your there i know a lot of people are there but sometimes i don't want to burden you. or anyone else.

You're not burdening us we're here to help. I'm also limited hearing but have found it ok to live with. I'm teaching myself to lip read and its helped out quite a bit. Your life isn't falling apart, you've just had a shock and when it's all settled in and you understand a bit better, things will get better. We're always here to help someone who is willing to consider our advice and if you would like to talk to me more just pm me. Chin up and keep smiling :)

You smile, and you mean it.
You laugh, and you mean it.

^ Those two things can cure just about anything. They make every problem go away for that split second, and once you realize how good it really feels. Well, I guess you'll be doing it more often, eh. Until your problems don't seem too big to handle.

Just don't even think of these things. If something goes wrong one day something the next will be good.

Thanks you guys for all your help i really mean it but.... well now i just don't see a point in living. my family has been seeming to leave me in the dark. my friends are abandining me in my time of need. . i have no where else to turn and i'm still getting dearfer by the day. I don't know at to do anymore. i'm so lost.

Well, i live because i believe one day life has to get better, and even though sometimes i think its not worth waiting to see if thats true it keeps me going. i know it may seem like right now everyone has abandoned you but you never know how people really feel and im sure your friends are all just worried and dont know what to do. i hope you find a life worth living for, im sure in the end it'll work out for you and everything will be fine with your friends,
bethxxx.

JUst to let you know.... your life never crumbles... theres always a reason to be living.... or else you would not be living

I know that it just feels as though there is nothing. not a single thing but my best friend and boyfriend to live for.

I don't know what to do anymore when my life is falling apart. . .

Really i feel the same way its almost unbearable at times.

I mean now it hasn't got much better but, i tend to try to ignore the problem more than fix it.

But i wonder when maybe if i should commit sucide or not. right now it seems like the better thing to do.

Don't kill yourself because you're going deaf.
You're friends are most likely *abandoning you*
because they don't understand or they weren't your friends to begin with.
You need to really think about what you have to life for, I bet it will outnumber what you have to die for.
Also, alot of deaf people are successful in life.
They learn to read lips, and are usually more in tune with their surroundings.
Give yourself a chance to prove your pesimism wrong.
Good luck.

ps. I could be completely wrong, most likely am.

It's not just cause i'm goin deaf its everything. i feel like nothin is right i question everything in my life now. i don't do it on purpose it just happens.

Thanks that really means a lot. i been on this decision for awhile maybe i will let things even out. i just hope it is really worth it.

You can help but it seems as if.... i mean i don't want to be where i was last year. last year i started jr.high...... i though ok i can handle it. but i couldn't. my friends..... MY VERY CLOSE friends who i had know forever were not talking to me. so i made some new ones..... becoming friends with the new ones..... i made a mistake. i became sucidal..... i told my closest friend the one i'd know forever that i was going to commit sucide that night at some time.... so that if my parents found out they could talk to her about it. well she called me just as i was about to take the knife and slice my wrist. we talked and talked forever and convinced me not to. ever since she has kept close watch on me. i am grateful for that but next year i will start high school. i'm afraide that i will end up the same way even though i have a boyfriend and my friend who keeps close watch. i just sometimes wish that things could be better.

No you are helping its the fact i don't want to be in that position next year. but i know i will end up in that situation.

I love you too. i really am grateful you called or else i could be dead you never know.i will call you when i can. luv you too.

Now i really need help. i feel like my other best friend not the one that keeps posting on here anotrher one is talking about me. now i think my conclusion is right i either need professional help or i need to end this in one of two ways.

Yes why?

We are touche with each other lately

Ok lol.

Are you sure you're going deaf? Go to the doctor and check it out.

I have they diagnosed it. now next week i have a hearing test. then i will know for sure how deaf i am.

Thanks to all of you.