Have no idea what to do!!!

What do i do?
i have such strong feelings for a best mate, been best friends with him for ages but dont no what to do. he is an ex of my mate and is now with another of them. he has said some pretty sappy stuff to me but i dont no what to believe. This was bfore he was with his current gf. I have never felt this way for a guy before (i no you feel different for everyone) but i feel really strong towards him. Ive had other crushes but never this long, i couldnt imagine them in my future. I have great plans for my future but would drop it all for him. What do i do? The mate he is with is really close and i dont wanna break up our freidnship. Hes one of a kind but ive never had confidence. Please if anyone has any idea for what for me to do please help! Do i sit and wait it out(ive cried myself to sleep countless times because of this) or do i say something??

If you don't want to break up your friendship, back off.

Well if he is with one of your friends you will loose that friendship.. and yeah on time youll more than likely get it bk in time but even though he is a "one off" he is still out of bounds..

you should back off and just carry on with it because thing is if your meant to get it together then it will happen but he is with her so really you should leave well alone..

jus keep your feelings a secret

It's going to be hard, but I think you should back off for a while. I don't mean, egnore your friends, but don't come between your friends relationship. Wait until they brake up, and if you still like him then, maybe then yu can try. You never know, he might like you!!!

x

Thanks guys! that was my plan all along coz firstly i dont have the balls. im not being full on about it or anything but i wish we had what we used to. We used to be so much closer when he wasnt with her but oh well. His friendship is so bloody awsm i wont ruin anything for it! if its meant to be it will be eventusally and one day if htey do break up il be there for both of them! thanks!! now to sit back, watch, and ball my eyes out...