Friend or Boyfriend?

Hey guys, I'm really needing help with something! Okay, my best friend Amanda that I've been bffs with since 2nd grade has finally gotten herself two boyfriends this year. She first went out with this guy named Alan who I HATED so much. He was a perverted freak, they met each other online and in his second email he was talking about having sex with her and doing all these things to her that he shouldn't have even thought about. Even though she didn't like it, she went along with it anyways just so he'd like her... that's not right. I talked to her about it plenty of times, even my ex talked to her about it and so did her friends. I was the one that talked to her mostly about it, I told her every reason why she shouldn't be with him. He was an @$$ to me, so rude and always talked about me. One day though her friend Caleb said ONE thing to her about it and she finally broke up with him, that wasn't the end of it though.. he started screaming at her and saying it was my fault that she broke up with him and she never said otherwise. He actually said he was going to KILL ME and said so much crap about me but once again, she didn't do anything.
Now she has a new boyfriend though, that Caleb guy that got her to break up with Alan. They met online too and the bad thing is, he's worse than Alan. But like she did with Alan, she keeps saying that she's "in love" with him and doesn't care. Even though I talk to her all the time about it she disagrees with me. One day I was just kidding and called her a slut because we always kid around like that but she took it too seriously and told Caleb about it and now he hates my guts too. I dunno what to do, like Alan she chooses him over me. I wish she didn't... this guy won't be here for her like I will. These days all she talks about is the internet and her online buddies, I feel so left out on everything. She doesn't even call me anymore! And when she does that's all she ever talks about.
And the worst part is... she doesn't come to me when she's sad anymore. She goes to her friends that she's only known for 2 months and doesn't understand how badly it hurts me. Not only that, but she tells them how "horrible" I am to her and a lot of them don't like me....
Please, please give me some advice! I have no idea what to do, I'm so lost...

I think you should just find a new friend. I had a friend like that in jr. high. maybe she's just jealous of you, is the only thing I can thinik of. but I mean, do you really want a friend like that? but like I said, i just think you should get a new freind...one that treats you right, and that your happy with. cuz obviously this friend doesn't think that much of you.

Tell her what you think of her, then dump her in her own mess and let her figure it out. You've tried your hardest to help her but she won't listen to you so let it be and find new friends.

She obiously isn't a true friend.
I think you need to let her go and find new friends.

Are you all sure? I'm really afraid of just leaving her though... we've been best friends since 2nd grade after all. If I end up leaving her it's going to be hard, no matter how much hell she's put me though. I'm hoping this is just a phase... one that won't last too long!!!

I'm really sorry to say this but you should not be friends with her. I've known theses two girls my ex best friend since 2nd grade. all they do is put me down and tell me how unintelligent i am and S**T like that. i finally got fed up. i have not spoken to them in almost 2 weeks it may be hard to let go. but it's for the best trust me. if you need to somone to talk to i'm here. but seriously take my advice. good luck!