Question about gays?

My best friend is a girl but when she turns 18 she wants to transform into a guy. but she likes this girl at our school and most people consider her gay well my question is: should she be considered gay or staright? because like i said she wants to be a guy as soon as she can i would really like ya'll oipoin on this thanks

Hmm i'm not too sure about that =/
why does she want to be a guy anyway?

Yeah it doesn't make sense why people feel they need to change. They say that they don't feel right in their own body? It doesn't make sense at all how can you not feel right.

Well she has never felt like herself in a girl's body and she has always been a guy at heart and she wants to look how she feels so please respect her because i know i do i evey her everyday because she came out with it at school and she has to deal with the looks and stares and she can't help how she feels about herself i see her more as a guy then a girl haven't you felt at one point in your life that you didn't feel like you were meant to be one thing? God will judge her in the end but now i support her through and through why do people judge anyways?

She may be a lesbian, or she may be a bisexual. If she likes another girl, than she is not straight. May just be a phase, may not be.

I don't get the not feeling right in your own body either, but some people need to get that drastic of a change to feel right I suppose.

"Yeah it doesn't make sense why people feel they need to change. They say that they don't feel right in their own body? It doesn't make sense at all how can you not feel right."

that's completely wrong. have you ever seen Transamerica? it means you've got the mind of a boy in a woman's body, you're unlucky if you have it but if she's/he's lucky enough to get a sex change then good for her/him. They don't feel comfortable because they feel like they should have the other parts, so i'd consider HIM straight, if HE has the mind of a man and then turns into a man and likes a girl at your school he is therefore straight. He's not a lesbian because his mind is completely different to his physical state and once they have the sex change they will basically be a boy/man.
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Lush-fcuk, have you never been educated about this? read up about transexuals and people who have the mind of the opposite sex to what they are opposed to what sex their body is.
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There's a girl like that at my work, most people call her a she even though she shaved her head and wears really guyish clothing. Why don't you just ask her what she wants to be called? It's pretty abrupt but the girl at my work had no problem with me asking that, its the only way to get a real answer. Because not everybody is the same and not everything is like what it is in Transmerica, as good of a movie as that is.

Lmao at bob's comment.

I agree with TPAM, just ask her. Don't just label =)

BANGBANG,

I have a friend like that. I don't need to read up about it, I was agreeing with Italia that I don't get it PERSONALLY because I DO FEEL RIGHT in my own body...if I was in a different situation, than maybe I would understand.

Does it matter what she can be labeled as? She wants to be a guy when she turns 18, so be it. Talk to her, make sure she is going to "make this change" for the right reasons I guess. In the end, it's her decision, no one elses'. Be there as a friend, whether she is a he or a she. Liking a guy and wanting to be a guy, well, if she is a guy at heart...she is a homosexual guy. That answers that.

Magic.

Well then lush-fcuk that was completely irrelevant. Of course we won't get it, that's because we aren't it. and I know not everybody is like they were in Transamerica, i was just saying that so you could see what the actual problem WAS.
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She wants to be a guy so i would consider her as straight

"Well she could kill her self or she can deal with it and do what she wants to do and would consdier her another equal, a human i would not lable her because whats wrong loving the same sex or opist sex noting its just loving the human"

^^ Seriously? You could have taken out the "well she could kill herself" and left it at the rest. STOP advising people to KILL THEMSELVES! How horrible would you feel is someone actually followed your advice and killed themselves?

Right on! If she wants to be a guy and feels like a guy, acts like a guy, talks like a guy and she has shaved her head countly times and she dress like a guy you would believe that she is a guy if you saw her and thanks a lot to the people who are backing me up

Life is nothing,
you should really think about what you are really telling people when you give them advice about killing themseleves because my best friend actually went through that and every time me and my sister talked her out of it so please think about what you really are saying.

Well.. I think she should be concidered a lesbian right now since she is a girl and likes another but when she gets that sex change she will be technically straight. Anyways, that shouldn't even matter. What's wrong with gays anyways? We should all be able to love whoever we want and shouldn't be questoned by it. I don't have a problem with gay people!

~Loveless Nights~

Life is nothing,

That is a horrible thing to advise to someone to get on someone elses nerves.

But I absolutely agree with the person above me. "We should all be able to love whoever we want and shouldn't be questoned by it. I don't have a problem with gay people!"

^^ Very well said.

No offense but this is a stupid thread...

and to answer your question:
She's straight.
You said so yourself, she's always thought of herself as a man. Straight men like women.
She's going to become a man. The connection is quite obvious.

I agree, i think she is striaght if she likes girls, if she likes boys gay and both bisexual. I wish her the best of luck. Because it is very difficult 'coming out' when i did everyone kicked up a fuss, and all i said was that i was gay. she must get a bit of hassle becasue of the sex xhange thing. (or does ppl at skool not know about that?)

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DARK ANGEL ROSE?

People at school do not know about her wanting to get a sex change only that she came out with it

Mournigxhim,

No offense but in my mind this is not at all stupid b/c there are alot of people that goes thru this everyday of their lives, they have to deal with the stares, the comments and they still hold their heads held high b/c they are normal people and they have feeling too just b/c you don't agree with their sexually doesn't mean that they are stupid or not important, they are just as important as you and me! you can't understand in less you go thru it yourself. this is a very important subject to alot of people and some of those people are on this site. Also if this subject is so "stupid" why did you comment?

Ok, if your friend wants to become a guy (sex change), I totally respect that by the way. You are who you are, you can't change that.

I would say if your friend is a true *transexual* - wrong sex, in wrong body. Then I'd say she / he is straight, because if she / he, has always felt like a guy, and wants to be one, then thats just like any straight person, liking the sex they aren't.

she wants to be a guy. fancies a girl = straight

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I agree with Tracy. If you think of it like that. She wants to be a guy. And he/she likes a girl. Then that would be straight. There's nothing wrong with it. I totally support whatever she is up for.

'Until then shes a lezbian'

you can't even spell lesbian, it's a he, he has a boy's mind so therefore he's a he. He's just sorting himself out for the body he's supposed to have, so he's straight even in the woman's body. He probably feels as if he doesn't own the body he's in, like he's been placed in wrong parts, so he's straight, not a lesbian.

Shes "gay" untill she's a Woman. afterwords "straigh" as a ruler!

It's not a she, it's a body of a woman, but not a mind. The mind is what makes you who you are, not the body, HE, is a HE, so HE is STRAIGHT.

Whoa easy. Someone asked for help. We are giving it. You don't need to get pissy at us.

Im all late on this and stuff but watev. i think she should go for it and when she is a guy, she will be considered straight by people who dont know her but for those who do, forget them. she can do what she wants and should not be judged. i respect her decision and think she is straight in her mind and others should see it to. much love you guys

^Agreed

Let him/her be himself...

Kristen true dat yo!

(im gangsta)

anyways how bout

the person is human and in a relationship.. who cares who is in it,,?