Fell in love....

Ok...I am dating this boy..."Whats-his-face" as most my friends call him. He used to be a prince but now he's just another mindless pig (aka Man)

Now at prom I met this wonderful girl, she is sweet kind and loving, and not to mention she is helping me through a very hard time right now with a dear friend of mine.
Shes everything I could ask for.

Now whats-his-face is under the impression that I am in love with him when in fact its the girl who is making me so loopy. I can't tell anyone about my gay love because where I live I have a high chance of getting killed for saying it. One of the reasons I only openly dated this guy.

Now my problem...If I dump him, im afraid he'll just kill himself, drop out of his senior year, or just go mad.....

Whats an idea for me?

*I love my Jello!!!*

Never let that fear strike you. Many people use it as blackmail to trap the other in the relationship...and you don't want to be trapped in a relationship that you don't even WANT to be in..there's no point to it, and he should realize that. Sit him down and tell him you want to be friends, but you can't date him anymore, tell him you need time to yourself to think over some stuff...and if he doesn't understand that and respect your wishes than he's not really worth it anyways.

Why would you be killed for your feelings? why would your love be a reason for your death? what kind of people do you live with? you should be open to them, tell them exactly how you are, and how you feel. tell the guy you don't love him, even though it [DOES] hurt knowing you're getting dumped by your girlfriend for a girl.. which did happen to me.. but he'll understand.. as long as you hide it, the longer you remain [fake] to the world..

I have to agree with every answer in the thread, i mean, if you're not happy then, don't stay with him. Areyou even attracted to boys, you didn't state your sexuality in your thread. And if you're not, then it's not fair on yourself to be in that relationship. From your thread you have nt gave me the impression you are bisexual but that you are gay, if that is so, then just tell him you don't want to be with him anymore. i mean, you can't be in a relationship just to make everyone think that you are stright. It's stuoid. Sorry for being harsh, but it's the truth.

Best wishes.

x

Oh. wow.

You need to tell him that it's the girl that is making you act like you are.

Having the feeling of falling in love is the best though.

O my god what a story :O

You should follow your heart, your happiness should come before your boyfriends. You shouldn't be scared he may do something, you should do what's right for you. I know it'll be hard, but it'll be the best thing for you. You have every right to be happy but if you're with somebody you don't really want to be with, you won't be happy. If you love this girl, you shouldn't have to hide it from the world... you need to talk to them both and tell them how you feel. Best of luck!!

~Loveless Nights~

... this is a big problem .. you shouldnt be riticuled for ur beliefa... love is love..

I love you too :)